The *BAD* boy/girl factor..

Right I've been talkin to a few people about this BADboy factor.. People, mostly guys, seem to have this misconception that girls only fall in love with creeps, i.e the bad boys, women LIKE being miserable. They say they want a caring lovng guy but they always end up choosing the guy that ignores them and treats them bad over the one that is always there? THAT made me furious to no end :P imo, that is so not true!!

Also some guy said, the same applies to guys also, kind of. Guys too LIKE bad girls. I dunno if there is any truth to guys like badgirls staement infact I think it is the other way around! but yeah I'm pretty sure that most girls don't prefer bad boys. Well not the ones I know anyway. What about you girls, would you choose a bad guy over a good one? What about guys, what do they think about this? Is it true that nice men finish last?

yup (some) girls love bad boys......

Women prefer to feel protected, but a nice boy who doesnt even want to hurt a fly, girls feel as if nice boys cant protect them. so they would prefer to be with a man who can protect them.

Sometimes in life even bad boys need true love, but while he is looking for true love she is looking for a good time pass. Sometimes who we are we attract the wrong person we don't need.

Umm....what he said....^_^

I myself like to be treated very very well. However, I am very much attracted to guys who are spontaneous and very, very confident which can sometimes be misconstrued as arrogance, and I'm probably attracted to them because I'm the exact same way, that's about as "bad" as it gets for me.

I personally know of a couple of girls who keep dating the same type of jerks again and again but I think its more psychological than anything else. It definitely does not apply to all girls at all.

I don't think guys like "bad girls", maybe for one-night stands or flings but definitely not to settle-down with. Guys I've talked to like seem to prefer the nice, innocent girls.

and ur point is....?

lol leave my opinion em quite confuse

no problem lol

btw u sound like pakistani activist Asma Jahangir ;) heard of her?

hey nighty i love ur siggie, make me one too pls, in black and purple or some random colours, thanx

umm ye ..lol shez always confused

n like ... on da topic ...
i do get attracted to bad guyz but like cant spend my whole life
and as i know guyz around me they want a simple gurl ...

i do get attracted to bad guyz but like cant spend my whole life

so attraction and love r same things or two different things?

and as i know guyz around me they want a simple gurl ...

then guys around u have no taste then ;) j/k

thanks...i didn't make it, a friend did but
ill pass on ur request..np

lol thanx ! :)

umm love is a different thing n ... attraction its diff ...

so attraction and love r same things or two different things?



then guys around u have no taste then ;) j/k
lol ... n guyz .... omg they r jz mad .... cant comment on them ... !!!!!

errrr
WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT???

Jeeeezzzzz

nooo i tink Nathan is VERYYYY NICEEE N DECENTTTTTTT thank you very much..

even though he hangs around different guys and guys who are CREEEPSS and IDIOTS

he stays with one da messed up guys everyone knws about.. but i dont think Nathan EVER well nothing for me to hear dat hes a mess about/bad boy

my nathan is too niceee for that!!
hes soo cutee 2!!

*sorry nothing to do with topic*
but yeh

i dont always agree with dat but yes ive seen dat happening..

helll one ma mateee is having dis truble..

am telling u.. da guy is VERYY DAMN DODGYYY!!

am not having her n him dating.. hes justtt tooo tooo..
hes a idiot.. straight forward idiotttt!!

thanks...i didn't make it, a friend did but
ill pass on ur request..np

i dont know wat guys want .. i dnt know if i care all i know is that i know wat my 'nighty' wants:tounge_sm purple and black..i'll see wat i can do about the request..

lol ... ruby .. em not talking bout my jijs lol

Bad boys are the best in bed![atleast Fraudzz is] but you gotta find the balance in life..oppsite attracts!

i dont know wat guys want .. i dnt know if i care all i know is that i know wat my 'nighty' wants:tounge_sm purple and black..i'll see wat i can do about the request..

so sweet of u........

and btw thanx for the only vote ;)

lol
ahh cant comment on dis !!!

Bad boys are the best in bed![atleast Fraudzz is] but you gotta find the balance in life..oppsite attracts!

*speechless* :whatchuta

lolzz

hey where is my black n purple wallet btw? :( ek din ka kaha tha

umm i forgot seriously ... i didnt remember .. u know ... em kinda lazy
lol ... i definitely try to get sum pics

ahahaha looooool
i knowwww

god damn it.. i neeed helppp

i bring ma Nathan into everything!! ahaha

ma mate saw me afta ages and hes like... spill ruby whats with u and nathan? have u kissd him yet? am like u gettt lostt am not telling u anything!!
but i cudnt lol so am like noo were still FRIENDS!! LOOL

what a noseyy idiot.. being a guy hes asking me have u kissed him yet..

helloo its not gone dat far yet..

right back to topic..

hmm bad boys thing...

i dnt knw.. coz ma nathan isnt bad boy... not anywhere arnd me though
dats all i care aboutt

hes fine da way he is!!

omgggg

i dont even wanttt to think what would happen!!!

omgggggggggggg
datssss scarrrrrrrrrrrrryyy

nitemareee

u justtt scareddd me!!!

ahaha loool yesss

but seriously what if he did?

ma mates says to me.. if nathan sees u like the way we do.. he seriously would run away..
u dont ever give up..

its been 9 months!! get over it lol¬!!

one mate has gone uni.. shes like tell me about ALL the guyss from august till now.. whats happening? am like whatt ALL guys? shes like all ur crushing or whatever happening..
am like i told u about nathan didnt i?
shes like WHATTTTTTTTTTTTT still on that guy? its been nearly 1 year ahhaha

hehe awww
i hope so!!
damn it.. i like him!!!

honestly ma mate was a right idiot with ma today he wouldnt stop asking about whats happening with nathan coz i had a massive smile on ma face all day.. he goes ive not seen u for 3 weeks so what have i missed? whats all happening?
hes like firstlyy whats happening with nathan?

noooooooooooo NOTHING TO DO WITH NATHAN!

honestly i dunno.. its ma best mate

she kept making me laugh n laugh sooooo muchhh 2dayy frommm 8:30AM lool

honestly.. i didnt even see nathan todayy soo nope.. but i wanted to..
but am always VERY HAPPY and SMILYY but when i see Nathan.. u probabaly think i go MAD coz am like on cloud nine with happiness hehee

yeh... and at 7pm.. she sent me loads of pictures of myself..

well what it is was.. in august i wore a pink and black sarii so i was posing for pictures.. n she always end up taking a video of me without knowing.. n then she tells meee later on.. but she forgot she had a video.. she found it yday so what she did was everytime i did something or whatever she took a picture..
like one picture i look shockk.. so she put expression like "ruby's WTF nathan here?? face"
and then more like.. "ruby pretty" face... and another one.. like "ruby look am damn tired but i still look hot" face.. there was another that said "ruby look guys i can wave" face.. then another "ruby am shy dont take a picture of me" face...

u get da idea? she wrote out all that.. another one said "ruby giggling/smiling.. did sumone mention nathan's name?" face?? ahaha


u get it?? expressions??
and it was in a videoo she just paused it and took pictures.. i cudnt believe how muchhh faces or stupid stuff i did lool

Bad boys, bad boys
Whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do
When they come for you
LOL
How come nooo one ever likes the geeky guys? :rolleyes:

lol men yr so crazy bout him ...
n dnt worry if hed eva get in here ... hed definitely ... love u foe ... for such crazy things lol hes blessed

Bad boys, bad boys
Whatcha gonna do, whatcha gonna do
When they come for you
LOL
How come nooo one ever likes the geeky guys? :rolleyes:

so u like geeky guys??

^do u not like geeky guys coolest gal?

She does, that's why she likes you! LOL!:D

saman!!
i WISHH MORE THAN ANYTHING hehehe

so u like geeky guys??


LOL
Well it doesn't hurt to be smart :D:D

She does, that's why she likes you! LOL!:D
lol

saman!!
i WISHH MORE THAN ANYTHING hehehe
dun worry yaar
btw hows my jij ?

She does, that's why she likes you! LOL!:D

well in this case its unrequited love ;)

^do u not like geeky guys coolest gal?

oh yes i adore geeky guys:D

so wht r u studying ??:p

well in this case its unrequited love ;)

:thinking2

oh yes i adore geeky guys:D

so wht r u studying ??:p

studying n me? :thinking2

and i neva knew that u've started fancying geeky guys. wow

off the topic ?

lol

I think its not even about bad vs good boy thing. Its just who you bond with. Or have an attraction towards.

lol

I think its not even about bad vs good boy thing. Its just who you bond with. Or have an attraction towards.
lol haan exactly
ap ko to good vs good ho na is liye keh rahi ho :p

Still.. no one likes the geeky guys :rolleyes:

i doo lol ... but cant spend my life wid him... juz for limited time

Hmmm...it should be a bad boy, with a good heart...I say...:p...

lol

Usually the geeky guys in highschool
End up being the smart hot guys later on :D
I've seen it happen quite a few times :D:D

Yeah, in the movies..:p...LOL!

Well I for one like to be treated nice. But it is also true I like to feel protected as well but is it really hard for guys to be both? :thinking2

I would choose a nice guy coz at the end of the the day the bad guy myt just be a user