Practicality in life vs. Being Giver

There are aspects of life you do stuff for all, based on making people around you happy rathe then focusing on practical aspects.


Should a sucessfull life be more focused on pratical aspect or just do your stuff for world, even though it doesn't ensure success?

50 50 of both ;)

btw thora elaborate karo pls, im confused

this is what i think

Making people around you happy is important as one cant survive with seeing everyone around one sad but according to me a successful life should me based on practical aspects, one really needs to be practical to have success but success for everyone is of different. From someone like my mother making everyone happy is success and not practical aspects but i think if one is not practical one cant gain happiness themselves and if one is not happy themselves than how much ever happy others will be, one will still think that they are not and keep on trying and hurting themselves.

If the people I love and care about are happy and if i can make them happy..then that's succes to me:) Whatever makes them happy, is a smile in my heart.

dat was soo hard to understand after i read pari posts i understood whats its about

HERES wat am saying

THE WORLD IS SELFISH..
WHY SHOULDNT I BE SELFISH??

I know it sounds sooo nastyy

but whatever.. i had enough of being the complete like giver.. n makin sure everyone happy.. everyone dis n datt.. never tinkin of maself..

but now i just think.. whyy shud i tink of maself?

THIS IS MY LIFE.. ill do what i want.. and ill be HAPPY by ANY MEANS

i cudnt give a crap about anything else..

i know it sounds nastyy when i put it like dat..
but dats how ive been MADE TO TINK NOW..

i mean after all ive gone thru.. why shudnt i?
no one can say.. i didnt do anything to keep.. him/her happy.. coz da ones who know me.. know i did everything..
but it got me NOWHERE

sometimes.. u just need to learn to tink of YOURSELF and obviously your family... as well

so yeh beside ma families n ma friends.. well everyone who knws me.. n i knw them.. i cudnt give a crap about anything else..

u knw.. im kinda shockd at dis post of mine..
coz i was da person who always thought about others.. now from dis posts.. its just showing i dont anymore... and i say am glad i dont.. coz some people ive known/know dont even deserved/deserve it..