Net Friends!

net friends...or rather like real life friends for me... i got some wonderful friends..whom i met on net....know them from so long....we have so much fun..when we r all together.. laugh n all tht.. partying is so much fun..we go outing as well....most of my close friends r my netpals....n there r many whom i met on net..n stay far.. but yet close to heart....sum wonderful ppl..who make my life....life wuld be so much diff without em....
what u think abt net friends??? ( i knw most answers wuld be..they suck..not worth trust n all ) but there r ways how u work things out.. n how u approach

well i have lot to talk about this issue but for now i have no time...
so shortly,
some net friends=timepass to get rd of boredom....
some net friends=life-time buddies to share ur life or to be with u at ur bad or good times....

thts all for now...

i've never had a net friend that close ..
most random ppl who i chat to and forget all about until next time they come online...

Net friends definitely have a special part...I guess it's just a different from the usual.



...and trust is always an issue...:p ...

hmmm
okayy almost everyone on my contacts go back to i known them for 3 years!!!

well lately i cleared my msn list....
there were too many people and most of them even were not my friends...
and some of them were really irritating me....with their unncessary talks...

so for now...i have the ones whom i call them real friends and some members who are canditates for being a real friend...lol

Net friends..do play an imp part.i hav more frnds on net than in real lyf...its gud esp 4 ppl lyk me who cant make frnds easily.......but i guess we hav to be within limits with them..

limits are dependent on trust....if u trust tht person no need for limits...
and also it depends on wth kind of limits we r talking about...

hmmmmm

my account constantlyy been hacked soo dats why lost loads contacts...but managed to get hold of some contacts...other than that lost contacts of loaaaadsss good matess

if i had 2 choose... i'd choose reality ova net ( wid a exception of few ppl) .. if u fink bout it.. at da end itz alwayz da reality friends dat come handy

hell.. ur sweet :rolleyes:

is dat another way of sayin m nt?.. n btww ary which catogory m i in??

m nt a friend :rolleyes: say dat on msn u kutta...

i wouldn say all ur life... once uve stopped net .. it wouldn b dat hard 2 4get em unless dere 2 close...

wid da exception of few na...even iff u tryy ur hardest wid sum u jus cnt..

log of msn??? leeme c u tryy

:) nw don come back on

n da exceptionz r 4 da ppl i know...ntt referin 2 u

i already sent half of them to the hell...but those handful of people will be in my heavan forever...now imagine which group is more lucky....:D

The hell one...:p ...hehe...kidding...

shazia...i agree with u...lol...coz being with me is worse than being in hell:D

ahem..whts going on???

nothgn much Rajuuu...just we r discussing whether i m a good friend or not:D

pay me $1000 i will give gud results :p

damn...i already owe u much.....:p

kaha dosti ek dard hai
humne kaha ke dard kabool hai
sub ne kaha dard ke sahare reha na paooge
hum ne kaha ke dosti ke sahare marna kabool haiii
Friendship is a collection of hearts, ready 2 give, share and
understand. It never fades & never ends. It only reminds us that
life is not perfect without a friend.. So thnx for be...

god rite now i hate my net friends:mad:

umm some of them:rolleyes:

for me net friends and reality are friends are both great and i need both kind
but it sucks when u find out that ur net friend's been lying to u bout everything so i like reality friends better

i got used to their lie:D

people u wnt believe but rite now i only have 2 people on my msn list...
omg how could i delete almost everyone:eek:

There's no such thing as a net friend, in my opinion. Unless you meet them in person, at which point they cease to be a net friend and are an actual 'friend'. Until that point, you are taking that person purely on faith - that they are who and what they say they are.

There is something about seeing and talking to a person in the flesh that is the only real way of figuring them out. People are too complex to to be able to consider them a friend just by emailing them.

As the old saying goes....seeing is believing.

i dnt agree with you
u can support ur mailing by chatting and calling too...and after knowing one person for more than 3 years...wht else you can call him or her other than friend??

Does time really make any difference to it? Yes, you can be friendly to people over the net, and be supportive but its pretty general and neutral stuff really - stuff that anyone could say or do to have the same effect. There's no intimacy to it, like there is in a real friendship - the laughs you share, the conversations...it is all so much deeper and more meaningful when you see that persons face - see their expressions. Its only then that you really see their heart.

i guess it s a type of character coz i share more special and precious moments with my net "friends" than i share with real world friends...

For example - you seem like a nice girl to me, you are intelligent and articulate your thoughts well. But we dont [I]know[I] each other...we could carry on emailing on this forum for years and still not get much closer to who we actually are. There is naturally always that sense of caution.

Whereas if we were two people who just met in the course of our daily lives, within 30 minutes we'd get a definite sense of each other's characteristics.

Just my opinion of course, but thats the way it seems to be to me :)

Really?? That is remarkable. Absolutely remarkable. I am very suprised to hear that. What can you share over an email that you cannot in real life?

lol
actually i m more cautious in daily life....
and i respect ur opinion
considering my own friends..i really cant agree...:)
but of course it depends both on you and the other person to be able to establish such a strong bond.....as if u guys are really meet...
and it is too difficult at the same time...
among almost 20 people added in my msn
i could achieve this with only 2 of them....

Sheesh thats a pretty damning statement on the friends you have in real life. No offence intended.

Perhaps it is the case that because these people are at the end of a computer far away that there is safety in that, and it is , in a sense, controllable. The friends we have in our everyday lives cant just be 'switched off' at the end of the working day, along with the PC or mobile phone - that means there's a much greater need to find people of integrity. I agree..the implications of them being in our life are so much greater when we see them all the time.

lol i dnt think so...
i have 2 groups of people in my life
1) the people who proved to be a real friends in my life
2) the people who just are just passing by and popping up to say hello in my life
and these catgories are valid for both real and net life...
and i surely let people know in which category thy are...

Ok, well whatever works for you. So let me ask you - would you meet up with someone you met on the net?

of course not except 1 who is as i said more precious than my real friends...

I would suggest that to be an impossible thing for someone to achieve over the net - you would always be suspicious of someone you met on the net, no matter how nice they were to you or how similar their beliefs and sense of humour. Sadly, it is all stuff that can be faked.

But then, it entirely depends on the individuals concept of 'friendship' - if a friend is someone that one merely talks to and exchanges pleasantries with during the course of the day, then virtually everyone would be your friend and considering people you met on the net your friend would be no problem.

ok lets clear one thng..u r not my friend:p

Exactly my point ! And vice versa. I dont even know that you live in Istanbul - you could have just made it up !!

:eek:
u r too suspicious man:confused:
then u must be living in alaska with eskimo people:p

Yeah I am. Come over and i'll build you an igloo !

really??
if u build i ll surely come
but i dnt know how to find the way the alaska..can u help me:p

Of course, but only if you promise to keep me warm...its pretty cold here.

i m not a huge hairy polar bear to keep you warm:confused:
y dnt u go to hunt one???
but awwww thy are in extintion:(

interesting conversation going on here...
well i would say net friends are important as well as my "real" friends...if i had to choose between both i wouldnt choose because for me...both are "real" friends weather i have met them or not.
like take this...i live like about 10 -15mins away from some of my friends...n yet i havnt seen them since june last year after being together with them for 5 whole years every day of my life...n net friends...ive talked to them almst everyday...even though i never met them..

n ill admit yeah ive met up with this person actually 2 ppl...dis gal i knew on da net turns out she was from my same skool n we met in da canteen!!! haha weird init? n now shes a good matee...we still online..thou i dnt see her much coz am in collee...n this other person who i knew from da net...n u knw what??? he was no difference as he was on da fone...or online...he was just shocked about how quite i was...dats about it... but u knw...net friends are real friends for me...if i had the chance 2 meet u all from bwh...i wud deffo take it up...i wud b able to trust ma gut instint to meet u all...coz if u werent bothered about ur friends "online" u register...make your first post...n leave n never bother posting again...some of us come on hear coz of our friends we made..

dis gettin too long n it shud stop...but i can go on n on about this topic..

I personally trust net friends in general more than real friends....unlike many....I'm not paranoid about people I meet online....

Im not paranoid about it as well. Personally I can tell who will be chatty with me and who I will be chatting with for a very long time. So far havn't been wrong.

And I wasn't one of them....:(

I don't have a problem with you. You just freak me out and you know why you used to freak me out. That's all. You're a nice person when I used to talk with you beside the little oddness of you know what.

I still freak you out....?

^ awww

im starting to trust my net friends now
and its way easier for u to tell them how ur feeling
so i really like net friends now:D but still not better than real friends

I still freak you out....?
hahahahaha
puppy u r freaking me out.. take some precautions...
and ruby i guess i would meet you, u seem u can bite but u cant harm..lol just kidding...:p

No Undertaker.. Not anymore... Well unless you decide to start that whole "thing".

Hehehe Hazzy trust me am so nice in real.

:eek: really?
lol just kidding
it s so clear u r a nice gal:p

Heheh
Awwwwwwww
My only problem is when Im comfortable with you I talk to much.
Trust me then you'll wish you didn't meet me.

hahaahahaha...
no worries coz i love talking too...ask Raj i was a headache the whole day for him....
tht s nice we can have a fun together...so when r u coming to Turkey???

awwwwwwww
did u guys talk on the fone?

awwwww hmmm am not sure
let me think about it...
plus am student still studying lol
u shud take some time out n come with ur hubby¬!!

noo....but he talked to me... voice chat...
to be honest i dnt give my number on net:fear:

awwwwwwww kwl kwl kwl
ohh right

yuppp:_:
may be i m too cautious..i dnt know...

awwwwwww
heheh

yuppp:_:
may be i m too cautious..i dnt know...

lolz dont worry im the same way:)

hehe cool:_:

i dun need anyyy... hum akele hi ache hai

u dnt need what??

he dnt need friends..
hes good on his own..


hmmmmm

yupp yupp...

No Undertaker.. Not anymore... Well unless you decide to start that whole "thing".

Hehehe Hazzy trust me am so nice in real.
So you'll re-add me....?

:whatchuta :retarded:

u knw...i losttt ur add....
its not about re adding..
theres so many people addy i lost..
pm me ur add agen plz

It's cmgravekeeper@hotmail.com ....its also in my profile.....:p

okay i done it

Cool.... :D

lol u guys are so cute:p

I am not....

ok u r ugly

i dont believe in net friends:mad: :(

OK...
why??

It's paranoia.....

N what does that mean???^^^^

:D
i guess its just a guess:D

You guys are so lazy....use www.dictionary.com to look it up....:p

i've got some good net friends but the friendship wilters after a while. I'm net friends with people i went to school with a couple of yrs ago- that's always cool:) but honestly, most net friendships dont last very long. it's much easier and better to have friends u can hang out with in person

lol......nice.....

hmmm

hmmm everyone has diffferent opinions

okay rajj how have me n you managed to keep in touch for the last 3 years????????????????????????????????????????????? ?????????????????//

let me tell you...
u both talk a lot...hahahahahahah
:p

Honestly the amount of people I still know from here from like 3 years. Shocking

Half of them would remember how much I hated school I called it "Hell" lol!!

i've got some good net friends but the friendship wilters after a while. I'm net friends with people i went to school with a couple of yrs ago- that's always cool:) but honestly, most net friendships dont last very long. it's much easier and better to have friends u can hang out with in person

Yeah I agree but I still do have some net friends that I keep in touch with.

i still got net friends..whom i knw from 1997.. i feel nothing new....its how u keep ur friendship alive..n how much ur attached and how much u think abt each other..and understand each other ..thts imp.. if sumone is busy for a while..dosent mean..the other shuld give out hope or not try to stay in touch...anyways there r nowdays lots of way to keep in touch...so..individual choice

so true....

well i differenciate between net people and net friends....

net friends are cool

wow raj thats wicked..
heheh i was 7 years old in 1997!!!
hehehehehhe

awwwww

yup ruby... n we still the net friend group..we go out together....outing n all.. though like kumar/ganesh/ got married.. n shashi is getting married... but still.. we r friends..and like more other friends r there....they r younger to me...we even play games together... i dun have any scale for friends.. all r equal to me.. n wuld expect same treatment...im a heart person...n open... small things can make me happy.. n smallest stuff can make me sad...but my friends know me..and they knw.. i mostly dun even say stuff to anyone or show anything...anything said to me is okay...ppl take use of me.. idun mind...i knw whtever idid n do.. i dun have anything in mind of returns or anything...thts life... net friends r life friends for me...though sum or maybe most of ppl on net..dun consider or think same abt me..i dun mind...i knw wht i feel n do...rest individual choice.. but i wuldnt support or be..wiff .. who differiante or wuld jus leave u .. or forget u..cause u were net friends...

It's true I guess.....can't help forming an attachment if you know them for so long...

for almost a week i quitted being in touch with my net friends except bwh...
coz lately i realized tht the people i call "friends" dont understand me and i also dont understand them....although i have been in touch with some of them for more than 2 years....
i guess i nstead of hurting smo or being hurt by smo, it s better to leave silently...

See..that's the thing...over the net you only have words to go buy....and no expressions or body language...so then it's all down to interpretation...that makes it more difficult to understand someone I guess....

its difficult to understand someone in real as well...just the percentage of net vs reality is 40-60 ....but then thts wht makes it interesting..and once u know n do.. its very good....ppl fake on net..ppl fake in real as well...knowing someone in person dosent gurantee a successful relationship..same goes for net...unless and until u open and express urself.. noone is going to understand u or ur sentiments.. noone got superpower..tht they will come to know automatically...thts the worse part in any relationship.. u expect other shuld know n understand u ..without u telling them or informing..or expressing..noone can...besides ppl got their own tensions n problems..they have to deal with....in relationship u need to understand...listen ... express n talk

may be u r rite...may be i was wrong...may be i was unable to express wht i feel or think clearly...may be i didnt show effort..may be i was ignoring their thougths and emotions although thy express themselves very well...
but i m sure of one thing...silence is the best to end the friendship at the rite point without leading to further unnecessary and inappropriate talks only remebering the happily shared moments...

wats going on here i can see big big lectures!!!!!!!!

yea we are sharing what we have learnt from net friendship....

ok lemme also share.....well i guess i learnt nothing from net friendship.....loooll

waaaooo thts amazing...

heheee.....but i learnt sumthing from u hazyyyyy n dat i m not gona share

share share
i dnt mind
i tought many thng to many people both good and bad

silence is a weapon..it can draw peace or rahter neutral no talks nothing..or can rather increase tensions or missunderstandings...it gives air...anyways i cant talk abt it rt now.. i got my own tensions to deal wiff...maybe sum other time...

...or sometimes silence itself says a thousand words...

yeah lol....shazia is ryteeeee

nopes silence at times is bad...the other person might take...as to ur wrong..thts why ur keeping silent..it culd work the other way..depends

All down to situation I guess...

well girl looks so gud ..when shes silent..cause girls blah blah a lot :p

looll....trust me i dnt blah blah a lottt

I don't think any of us blah...blah...we have civilised conversations...:D ...

ill admit now i had the worst experience of my life the cause was net.. which started off as net... then met... then messed up..

one incident coz of net.. led me ruining my life... i aint afraid to admit how messed up and crazy it made me... one incident... meeting one person... taught me to hatee life... then taught me to live life...taught me to love. taught me to hate... taught me to smile... taught me to cry... everything i possible could have done in ma life.. ive done it... one person i met on da net...

n man do i regret it?? yeah one of the biggest regret of my life..
but yet... i still consider net friends special... just coz one person i cant stop living... regardless how theyyy have been wiv me..

^^^Umm, can I ask what happened?

i rather not say...
coz its not worth repeating anything that happened..
but ill say one thing...

i was sooo caught up about da mess... i forget maself!!

goshh when i mettt him...i came to sense lol..

lolz
i want my senses back to....
so should i meet each one of the bwh people??:p

nah umeed se kaam ho.. nah chahat se jyada...

hazzzy meeeeeeeeeeeeeeettt meee

ive been toldd am a greatt mateeee
haha

No...Hazzy's coming to Mars first...:p ...

y dnt both of you come to Turkey???
aww thts would be so exciting...

is it sunny there???

ma coming to places mainlyy to do with how hott ?? does da sun shine?? is it propa hot?
hahah

it s quite hot....
i even started wearing my mini skirts...
the sun is shining so beatifullyyy:)

We're there! :p
Ruby get packing...:D ...LOL!

WOHOOOOOOO
TURKEYYY HERE COMES RUBY N DADI!!

Special Treatments please!!

Hazzy keep some Ice Cream saved for us first thing.. Moi mint flavour!!

Chocolate and Vanilla for me...:D ...please...hehe...

yeahh choccie forr me 222

dnt worry gals
i have always ice-cream, choclate, chips and coke stock at home....
u just come safely
rest is ok:D
oh btw if Raj will join us, i should buy some vodka
and i m sure Mirta wanna come too, so some cereals for her
yay!!!!!!:D

yay!!!!

were gna have sleepovers as well
midnite feast every nite
talk till we fall asleep..

can i sleep on floor???

yes u can sleep whereever and whomever u want:p

:eek: i should take u guys from airport....
dnt forgat the tell me flight time:_:

heheh sureeeee
n make sure u keep ice cream ready then

daddi when we going?
afta college finishes ??/
me july 6th then!!

ok everyone we should negotate on the date...
m waiting for ur offers.....
hope i wnt eat all the icecreams till the time u come:D

hehhe awwww
okayy

vodka.. im in :p

Labs app ke honge, geet hum banayenge, manzil app ki hogi, rahe hum banayenge, kush app ho, khushiya hum ladenge, app bas dost bane raho, dosti hum nibhayenge...

i should check vodka stock....
but i myself prefer beer....:p

nooo noo vodkaaa
varna me and dadi will not come!!!!!!

are yaar ok ok
now i should persuade Raj for no vodka campaign:p

YAYY

rajjjj listen to us hehe

lol
yea at last:p

lol
awww

Labs app ke honge, geet hum banayenge, manzil app ki hogi, rahe hum banayenge, kush app ho, khushiya hum ladenge, app bas dost bane raho, dosti hum nibhayenge...

i luv this

should i ask for a translation??:Not_Impre

i ve met so many ppl on internet ... and ... now they r a imp part ov my life ...

Labs app ke honge, geet hum banayenge, manzil app ki hogi, rahe hum banayenge, kush app ho, khushiya hum ladenge, app bas dost bane raho, dosti hum nibhayenge...

i luv this

awsum

Net friends definitely have a special part...I guess it's just a different from the usual.



...and trust is always an issue...:p ...


me2

me3

me4

me5

stop being a kid :p

monkey see monkey do ;)

So you're saying you're a monkey?! ..:confused:...:p

hein? hmmmm not really but insaan bhi kabhi monkey tha :p

^^sirf tum honge,sab nahin:p

^kyun, aap insaan nahi ho? :p

me6 :D

Me ? ??

no

Well Ihave One friend form the net he is very great person. but some of them very bad ppl and iam always think good before find friend form net :regular_s

hmmm

Yeah, it is important to be careful na...

only one??

Well If You suprise from me Fantasticguy and Every one :teeth_smi

well for sure ihave alot of friends on messager and net but one friend i found him very nice person ilike talk with him from 2 years and until now we are friend . imet on net alot of bad ppl well frist iwas want be their friends before iknew them very well and after iknew them and what they think ijust left them all so idont trust from any one so and ishould be always carefully and every one iguess before iregert :regular_s :wink_smil

Some net friends mean everything..
Others are just like.. I wish I never came across them!!
Some I dont even associate myself with anymore...

same hereeee.....
its the question that pops in ur mind everytime "should i trust them??"

I was thinking about this the other day.. Was wondering where are all these people ive known for like 4 years???

It just goes to show that people dont stick around even though they say they will.. O well.. That's life.. Gotta move on.. Time changes everyone.. Makes you realise who to spend your time with and who not too.. I dont speak to like anyone anymore.. People really have changed.. Its not the same from before thats all am going to say..

yup after schools we say it was just upto da school dat v used to have bes fo frens
once v step into da professional world its hard to get anyone, even after knowin a person 4 yrs u can expect da unexpected out of dem so trusting da online frens just like dat hard na