lucky_outrageous 21-03-2007, 06:50 PM not me! i'm a good girl:D
one of my friends at school thinks she's pregnant. i'm the only person she'll tell. she's 15. help me please! what do i tell her to do?
and no it's not me that's pregnant- seeing that's what people assume when u say its a friend!
bollywood_princess 21-03-2007, 08:44 PM tell her she needs to do a pregancy test just to make
sure if she is or not
if she is then she will have to tell her parents and
the guy that is the father
hope that helps
Undertaker 21-03-2007, 09:06 PM Oh brother....why did you do it in the first place....?!
*Red Angel* 22-03-2007, 01:28 AM ^Doesn't matter...it's done now..
..and yeah like Sufi said she's gotta get a pregnancy test done, to be sure it's not a flukey...amd then take it form there...
Bollywood_Babe 22-03-2007, 01:40 AM Not eeeven gonna comment...
Undertaker 22-03-2007, 02:53 AM Considering I have so many kids already....I'd say just be honest to your parents cause they'll find out eventually......
bollywood_princess 22-03-2007, 09:51 AM lol i think the point is aryaan that she has slept with someone
and probably hasnt got her period yet so she is worried that she mite be
guys :rolleyes:
Undertaker 22-03-2007, 04:28 PM What's with the "guys:rolleyes: ".....?!
lucky_outrageous 22-03-2007, 06:29 PM What's with the "guys:rolleyes: ".....?!
it's a girl thing:p
i have told her to get a test- she is completely refusing to. i even offered to get it for her- still no. and the other thing is if she IS, she already doesn't eat properly. she eats about one meal a day AND she's anaemic. i don't think the baby's got much of a chance of surviving or at least being healthy.
she has told the guy- he just went quiet. (she talked to him, not me).
and she was already in a relationship with a different guy when she slept with him. it's still a no-no on the 'rents.
bollywood_princess 22-03-2007, 07:10 PM oh no... sounds like a mess.
she needs to speak to someone soon
lucky_outrageous 22-03-2007, 08:33 PM oh no... sounds like a mess.
she needs to speak to someone soon
my point exactly! she's still not listening to me:mad: oh, and she finally knows his full name!
bollywood_princess 22-03-2007, 09:08 PM oh right...well is he guna support her?
Undertaker 22-03-2007, 10:05 PM Psh...guys don't support the girls.....they use them and throw them away......the fact is......that if she is pregnant.......she's screwd period........
AND WHAT DO U MEAN BY A GIRL THING?!!!:mad:
bollywood_princess 22-03-2007, 10:49 PM omg how insensitive is that....???!!!!
she didnt get pregnant all by herself u know....
it was the guys fault too so its only rite if he
supports her...
it is obviously a girl thing after that comment UT...coz
ur a guy and u just wouldnt understand
Bollywood_Babe 23-03-2007, 01:20 AM I sooo want to comment... but my comments are a bit "insensitive" as well... :rolleyes::D
lucky_outrageous 23-03-2007, 06:47 PM I sooo want to comment... but my comments are a bit "insensitive" as well... :rolleyes::D
doesn't matter- say whatever. i never take anything personally anyway:p
there's another problem with the guy. he MAY be the son of her mum's ex-boyfriend, but she doesn't know if he is for definite because she never actually met his other kids. argh! she's so screwed!
AlwaysLikedNeverLoved 23-03-2007, 09:18 PM ok first she has to get a pregnancy test like the others said then if she is pregnant she has to decide weather she wants to keep it there are special clinics you can go to im not sure if there are in usa (is this is an american site.. probly is) they can give you an abortion if you want one or if you keep it you have to tell someone it could be a teacher or a parent or just a close adult figure and lastly the father if possible err i hope i helped =]
lucky_outrageous 24-03-2007, 04:55 PM the abortion thing's a problem as well. she said right at the beginning, if she is, she will never have it aborted, but her parents'll proabaly kill her *figuratively speaking*.
~Veer_Ki_Zaara~ 24-03-2007, 11:02 PM first...i think u should gve her a tight slap across da face for being so stupid....den, if she isn't listening to anything u say, well dats her problem. just gve her da cold hard facts, dat she's a pregnant teen, no support frm da guy, parents will "kill" her, and u should tell her parents, no matter how much she might hate u for it. and let dem deal with her
lucky_outrageous 25-03-2007, 03:29 PM first...i think u should gve her a tight slap across da face for being so stupid....den, if she isn't listening to anything u say, well dats her problem. just gve her da cold hard facts, dat she's a pregnant teen, no support frm da guy, parents will "kill" her, and u should tell her parents, no matter how much she might hate u for it. and let dem deal with her
i'll tell her parents except that i know her mother isn't going to do anything- (she herself has 5 kids by 5 different men). and her dad's in america with his new girlfriend
Bollywood_Babe 25-03-2007, 11:03 PM first...i think u should gve her a tight slap across da face for being so stupid....den, if she isn't listening to anything u say, well dats her problem. just gve her da cold hard facts, dat she's a pregnant teen, no support frm da guy, parents will "kill" her, and u should tell her parents, no matter how much she might hate u for it. and let dem deal with her
LMAO
EXACTLY!
:D
lucky_outrageous 26-03-2007, 08:32 PM ok- here's an update- FALSE ALARM- NO BABY!
*Red Angel* 27-03-2007, 04:35 PM Ha!...guessed something like this would happen.
Well hopefully out of the whole thing she's learnt something.
*Red Angel* 27-03-2007, 05:56 PM Long story...:p
lucky_outrageous 28-03-2007, 03:25 PM Ha!...guessed something like this would happen.
Well hopefully out of the whole thing she's learnt something.
i wouldn't count on it! but hey, i'm not taking the rap for her next time!
surtigal 31-05-2007, 06:42 PM didnt they use contrception best thing dont have sex
surtigal 31-05-2007, 06:47 PM why sleep in the first place:confused:
dead man walking 18-08-2007, 02:10 PM I don't know if this is a serious question or not, but I fell its seriousness is perhaps underestimate (?)
Tell her to get a pregnany test immediately, also she's 15? (!)
What a legal issue that would create, keep us updated, I'll also eye the news channels for the same.
Undertaker 18-08-2007, 04:14 PM ....dead man walking..........
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