...what ya'll thought *may seem like a petty thread, but would be cool to see what ur views on this were* okay so im 19, living in north london, studying at uni and so it goes on...been a relationship for a year back in 2005, yep very young, naive, it obviously didnt work out, although they're was approval from parents, which nowadays is hard to get rite? *it was just one of those things i guess, hota hain, hain na?* Anyways i guess it just wernt in my fate, the dude was engaged to somebody else...*lies, lies and i guess more lies* :( neverthless it obviously made me tremble, it took a while, many people came by since then, i met various people *generally speaking* and no one struck me, i thought i'd let it be, i was still young *still am i guess* and had whole life ahead of me, had nothing to rush for...
...nevertheless back in december 2006 i just end up chatting to a dude from RD.com just generally, i had no intentions at the time, i couldn't think of myself being in the position im in today...months went by i got to know him, and now finding myself growing feelings for him not anything i hinted at him, but it makes me think??? One year or so went by and no one out of the many i met in *person* on a general basis struck me, but a dude i met online?? * i guess i would have thought it was pretty daft if a friend of mine had been in the position im in*opinions would be nice?*
*no its not being desperate but we're all HUMANS*
Cutie
14-03-2007, 05:38 PM
some options would be nice
-x- Maya -x-
14-03-2007, 05:46 PM
some options would be nice
There are no options, the basics is already stated above, just asking for views/opinions *see what ppl think*
Cutie
14-03-2007, 05:51 PM
i just feel sorry 4 u because us girls will never know who the right guy is for us
do u belive in love pple say that there is a person out there for everyone who loves u 4ever
Aaliyah~
14-03-2007, 05:56 PM
hmmm...
if u are drawn to him, i can only imagine how u feel since i myself have not been in this position...but i guess it can happen.
do u think u feel more comfy with this guy because on the internet a lot is left for the imagination whereas in real due to bad experience u seem reluctant...
just my opinion depends how u really feel and how much u have got 2 no him...
but u gotta meet him if u are serios about it.
Cutie
14-03-2007, 05:58 PM
i also belve this person but do u trust this guy because trust is the most important subject in a relationship
-x- Maya -x-
14-03-2007, 06:20 PM
i just feel sorry 4 u because us girls will never know who the right guy is for us
do u belive in love pple say that there is a person out there for everyone who loves u 4ever
Lol dont feel sorry for me buddy, im not rushing into anything havnt actually met up with any1 as such in such way, but i'll be meeting him soon, *in a public place obv* yeah i know, trust grows and yeah it is the foundation to every type of relationship tbh!
-x- Maya -x-
14-03-2007, 06:21 PM
hmmm...
if u are drawn to him, i can only imagine how u feel since i myself have not been in this position...but i guess it can happen.
do u think u feel more comfy with this guy because on the internet a lot is left for the imagination whereas in real due to bad experience u seem reluctant...
just my opinion depends how u really feel and how much u have got 2 no him...
but u gotta meet him if u are serios about it.
yeah i know relate to the message above ^^^
Cutiepie Rani
15-03-2007, 02:16 AM
Maya,
Don't be hasty about your love life. You only know him through online. Get to know him really well and meet up with him.
Me and this guy were dating for 3 years aur achanak we broke up...aur woh bhi bina karan se...
And its so hard for me to forget the first love of my life lekin I have to move on..
I stopped completely beliving in love now...
I know when I'll find the perfect dhula...
I always thought he was the 'one' and look how wrong I was...:(
Anyways just take all your decisions carefully.
And I'm sorry about what happened to you. I can totally feel your pain.
Bollywood_Babe
15-03-2007, 03:04 AM
I ain't all for this whole "online thing" but I heard it works for some people...
I'm pretty sure you're not some stupid little kid, so I say meet up with the dude and see how he is and how things go :D
Crazy things can happen :)
Good luck :D
Let us know how it goes ;)
fantasticguy
15-03-2007, 08:34 AM
well.. u must try knowing him more...as u developed feelings...start off wiff phone calls..and try to knw how much hes falling for u...get to know him more...get his adds..exchange cards or so...n then meet up in real.. knw each other for a while..n then ..
-x- Maya -x-
15-03-2007, 07:30 PM
well.. u must try knowing him more...as u developed feelings...start off wiff phone calls..and try to knw how much hes falling for u...get to know him more...get his adds..exchange cards or so...n then meet up in real.. knw each other for a while..n then ..
Lol yeah i would have guessed that, we do talk on the fone once in a while, will be meeting up soon, just taking things slow
-x- Maya -x-
15-03-2007, 07:33 PM
I ain't all for this whole "online thing" but I heard it works for some people...
I'm pretty sure you're not some stupid little kid, so I say meet up with the dude and see how he is and how things go :D
Crazy things can happen :)
Good luck :D
Let us know how it goes ;)
Aww yeah i know what u mean, but one thing that some peeps dont always understand is that, its not an 'online relationship' or whatever u wanna call it, im not dating him atm obviously, how can i? i havnt met him yet, we're just becomming to be good buddies i guess. The only difference compared to most friendship, relationships etc is that instead of bumping into them through the typical ways, "through friends...and so on" we met online, i guess we cnt change that, although it would have been better we didnt meet this way, but it happens, no?!
Bollywood_Babe
16-03-2007, 04:06 AM
Aww yeah i know what u mean, but one thing that some peeps dont always understand is that, its not an 'online relationship' or whatever u wanna call it, im not dating him atm obviously, how can i? i havnt met him yet, we're just becomming to be good buddies i guess. The only difference compared to most friendship, relationships etc is that instead of bumping into them through the typical ways, "through friends...and so on" we met online, i guess we cnt change that, although it would have been better we didnt meet this way, but it happens, no?!
It's happened already, so oh well, can't change the fact :)
Yea, meet him in public :p
OR take a friend with you incase he's... yea
And if it works, it works :D and if it doesn't, then oh well, no love lost
-x- Maya -x-
21-03-2007, 04:39 PM
It's happened already, so oh well, can't change the fact :)
Yea, meet him in public :p
OR take a friend with you incase he's... yea
And if it works, it works :D and if it doesn't, then oh well, no love lost
yeah thats pretty obvious i guess x
bollywood_princess
21-03-2007, 08:48 PM
you'll have to let us know what happens when u meet up
just be careful, i was in a very similar position years ago...
i ended up goin out with him for 3 years but it just didnt
work out...
-x- Maya -x-
21-03-2007, 08:50 PM
you'll have to let us know what happens when u meet up
just be careful, i was in a very similar position years ago...
i ended up goin out with him for 3 years but it just didnt
work out...
Oh right, yeah see what happens, then again maybe u wern't destined to be with him eh, oh well part of life i guess
bollywood_princess
21-03-2007, 08:51 PM
yeh i know now that he wasnt 'the one'
but i do regret ever meetin him now...
-x- Maya -x-
21-03-2007, 08:52 PM
yeh i know now that he wasnt 'the one'
but i do regret ever meetin him now...
Well we all make mistakes, they exist, for us to learn from, i hope its happened for the very best though, x
bollywood_princess
21-03-2007, 08:56 PM
yeh it has....at least im out of it now!
just took me very long to realise that we werent
rite for each other...
obviously could be a very different story for u :)
-x- Maya -x-
21-03-2007, 08:57 PM
yeh it has....at least im out of it now!
just took me very long to realise that we werent
rite for each other...
obviously could be a very different story for u :)
Lol who knows, where did ya meet him anyway? *realise u said online, but on a chatroom, forum??????*
bollywood_princess
21-03-2007, 08:59 PM
on forum i think...
dont know what it was called now...something India i think!