can guy or gurl always remain friends

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..
like in humtum>> love alwayz cums between ...

Hmmm they could be frends.

sometimes luv can interfere in friendships between a boy n gurl..
but as for if a guy n a gurl could alwayz remain friends.. YESH! they can!!!

so is it a yes or no?

yes

yeah i think a boy and gurl can be friends =)

of course they can!!!!

Yes they can!:9:

yes i think they can too!

acha ok

so is it a yes or no?

lolzzzzzzz =)

comeon say it

yes yes yes

i think a guy & girl can stay fweinds

like in humtum>> love alwayz cums between ...

onli sumtimes though....not all the time....

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..
it's impossible .....

^^^nahh it nots
u can be friends but onyl time can say when it turns to love but dat doesnt me its impossible

it's impossible .....

Its Really really Possible.

Definitely they can remain friends...and good friends too...true people may think that there is more to it than just friendship, but then these people are blah...or may be they are basing it off their thinking and approach...but i do sincerely believe that a guy and a girl can remain as good a friend as people of same sex...the minds should be clean and intentions should be right...i know lots of guys/gals that have remained friends and will continue to remain that way...

one of my best mates is a guy. we are close but i dont think it would ever turn into love becuase for that there also needs to be a mutal attraction. hanging out with my guy mate is just like hanging out with any of my girl mates. and he once told me that even if he did ever fancy me, he would never do anything about it becuase we are too close friends and it would just be wierd. so my verdict? they can definately just stay friends.

yeh..they can..
guys are acutally better to get along wid than girls are :D
haha

seriously man, guy friends are so much betta than girl friends.

i wouldnt say that....there are different benefits from having girl and guy mates. i mean there are some things that i could talk to my best mate about that i couldnt talk to my guy mate about, just cos he is a guy.

but then would you girls feel different if you went out with him to say movies? just the two of you..

I think a guy n gal can never be only frnd........cause anyone of the partner will develope a feeling for other its not the guy only or gal only but .........anyone can U never Know how u go through it but its a truth .....thats wot i think ;)

ENJOI!!!

sumtimes guys friends are indeed betta then girl friends.. girls can be soo bitchy at time hehe lolz

but still a guy and gal can stay friends but at the end it will turn into luv..1 of them will get others feelins than just friendship..

well see we can stay friends now can we raela???

well see we can stay friends now can we raela???
:confused: ahem i rather hang myself .. :cool:

aite try it, its better to stay friend with me than doin that

sumtimes guys friends are indeed betta then girl friends.. girls can be soo bitchy at time hehe lolz

but still a guy and gal can stay friends but at the end it will turn into luv..1 of them will get others feelins than just friendship..

nahi Raela..
guys are -usually- less bitchy than girls..
theyre -usually- easier to get along wid..
so does that mean..that ALL our guy friends will turn into lovers?
lol..nahi..
most definately not..
some guys are friend material..
others are bf material...lol

hey i can be a very good friend when it come too be

really?

yes bhoot

why dont you try it once in a while?

aite

lol...nice..

aite try it, its better to stay friend with me than doin that
i doubt it..

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..
oh yeah..just remembered...the answer to always remain friend is a big NO. they are bound to have a fight and spilt up and become dushmans...

huh?
why's that?

first i use to think no
but now i know it can happen cause
my friends boyfriend is ma friend and we talk so much and fool around with each other
and my friend knows thaat there can be nothing between me and him
so for the long term i say yea a girl and a guy can be good friends for a long time

i think it depands on the kinda of ppl

therefore>>yes, it is possible

i think it also depends on how naughty they are...mwahahaha....i cant remain just friends with any girl..mwhahahaha

lol in that case^^refer to Raela's last post

guy friends come in handy--
girls never share their science notes :p
ah>>and u cant always punch a girl....lol

why cant u alwayz punsh a gal? its soo easy :P

omg dun punch a girl in de stomach! ow yaar...lol
eik....and sum girls r such chickens! lol
u punch em n dey go "ow u gave me a bruise!"
ugh...
lol..guys dun complain bout bein punched too hard :p *usually*

can only come on forums for a min and this topic seemed interesting lol..

The answer is YES, of course it's possible...

One of my best friends is a girl, I've known her basically all my life...

Yeah of course its possible lol...I'm friends with you guys aren't I lol :cool:

and Rahul is a perfect example lol i know exactly who he is talking about, you look in the dictionary under friends and you'd find a pic of those two lol

But Rahul bhai, I'm still waiting for shaadi ka invitation lol ;)

Ok ok yaar I'll stop teasing you about her lol :tounge_sm

sum1's gonna be singin "mere yaar ki shaadi hai" :p


ugh--but i hate wen u're friends wid sum1 from de opposite gender...
and everyone teases you..
(jus like Raj^ did jus now)
lol...jokingly...but>>urgh!

well they are good friends, they've been teased before cause they been friends for so long, but I don't think they pay any attention to the teasing lol...

but I wouldn't be surprised if a shaadi invitation went out in their names lol ;)

Sorry Rahul bhai I JUST HAD TO get that last one out of my system :tounge_sm ;)

aww it'd be really cute if dey did get married..lol
hmm..but shh :p >>
--just friends....just friends.

how long hav u known this Rahul dude?

Met him when I was oh...say...oh geez when WAS it Rahul bhai lol..when I was 5 I think... :thinking2

But yeah it'd be pretty interesting/cool if the two of em got married lol...I don't think Rahul likes her though lol...the way she's acted around him I think she MIGHT but as far as Rahul liking her goes, I'm not sure lol :thinking2

confusion>>he lives in calg...u're in T.
...?

Edited my post just now btw if you want to read it...

and actually I grew up in Calgary but last year my family decided to move to Toronto, I am still in Calgary in fact, finishing up High School then I'll go to U of T next year...Rahul thinking of coming to U of T too!! :cool:

And guess what yaar lol...that girl that Rahul's known for long time, shes in Toronto too lol...moved there few years ago, but we have each others emails and Rahul and I were both in Toronto last summer chilling with our Toronto Crew lol :cool:

omg awww!
thaz so perfect!
hope it stays that way* :]

Arey Rajesh bhai.....you have very big mouth lol

well this is only the internet so thats only why I am posting this, (I hope you-know-who never finds this forum lol...YET) but Rajesh bhai I think I like her, yaar :embaresse

aww! lol
i would delete dat post after Raj has read it^--lol
not safe na :p hahah
wut if Raj invites her here :p

whoaaa frigg--your siggie really damn nice wen u click on it--lol
....skillz!

yeah lol learned Flash at school :cool:

and I dont think Raj would do that lol...WOULD HE? lol....

but about the sig, I made it in Flash, then saw we cant put Flash in our sigs!

so I went back to Flash and saved it as a GIF, but Photobucket only takes pics that are 250K or smaller so I had to reduce the quality SOOO MUCH to make it fit lol

hmmm...would he?

lol naah i dun think he would :p

aw but its sho cute how u like dat girl! lol
u reckon she likes you?
(i think Raj implied dat she duz)

Mere paas kuch idea nahi hai lol...(sorry if the phrasing was bad...meant to say I have no idea lol)

eh Rajesh bhai where did you go get your arse back here

lol
no yer wording was perfect lol

haha maybe if i leave Raj'll come back...? :p

Rajesh bhai aagaya...lol and in response to Rahul's post...

OHHHH WHAT??!?!!!! :shocked:

Arey Rahul bhai I didn't know you like her yaar lol...this is GREAT!! :D

Cue the remix yaar lol! (plays remix of "Chalte Chalte" from Mohabbatein and "Aaj Meri Yaar Ki Shaadi Hai") lol jk...

But seriously, Rahul, I had NO IDEA...jeeeez I am in SHOCK...I was joking when I said I wouldnt be surprised lol never thought it'd happen...
and NO I would never invite her here unless you gave me permission to do so, Rahul, so don't worry about that, dost. :)

Eh, but make sure you send me shaadi ka invitation, okay lol?

Ohh boy this is gonna get interesting next year in Toronto lol...WAIT A MINUTE...I KNOW WHY YOU'RE CONSIDERING UNIVERSITY OF TORONTO FOR NEXT YEAR ;)

WHOA what a coincidence...I have a CD playing on my comp, and Chalte Chalte is on it...just as I was finishing up this post the song started playing lol isnt that something

aww..! it's like a fairy tale!* :]

btw>>does -she- have a filmy name as well?

No she doesn't bhoot lol

erm, i dunno if I should say the name tho lol...cause its different than giving your own name than giving someones name who doesnt know youre giving it right lol

But as far as liking each other goes, Rahul just said he likes her lol, I dont know if she likes him, but I can sense something from her for Rahul...one example is when we were in Toronto and all of us were out and the guys and girls had separated and when we met back together they came up behind us and when they were about 30-50m away, she said "RAAAAAHUUULLLLL!" :D :p ;)

no no--dun say it
thaz not fair na--cant tell sum1 else's name :p lol

aww "raaahull!"
its like "devaaa!" lol

but hey--she could have said it friendly-ly, yeh?
i dunno--i wasnt there :p
btw>>is he gujju too?

yeah it couldve been friendly, never know lol

yeah shes gujju too, and because she and Rahul and both sets of parents have been such good friends for so lonng, her parents have lots of respect for Rahul lol same with her and Rahul's parents :)

oO so Rahul is gujju as well..
ai..
lol...thats cool...
prolly shouldnt discuss his life like this--especially wen he isnt here...lol
tsk tsk...
lol..*shuts up*

Woooa. Love lafra here :9:

lol i dont think he minds bhoot... :tounge_sm

Rajesh bhai aagaya...lol and in response to Rahul's post...

OHHHH WHAT??!?!!!!

Arey Rahul bhai I didn't know you like her yaar lol...this is GREAT!!

Cue the remix yaar lol! (plays remix of "Chalte Chalte" from Mohabbatein and "Aaj Meri Yaar Ki Shaadi Hai") lol jk...

But seriously, Rahul, I had NO IDEA...jeeeez I am in SHOCK...I was joking when I said I wouldnt be surprised lol never thought it'd happen...
and NO I would never invite her here unless you gave me permission to do so, Rahul, so don't worry about that, dost.

Eh, but make sure you send me shaadi ka invitation, okay lol?

Ohh boy this is gonna get interesting next year in Toronto lol...WAIT A MINUTE...I KNOW WHY YOU'RE CONSIDERING UNIVERSITY OF TORONTO FOR NEXT YEAR

WHOA what a coincidence...I have a CD playing on my comp, and Chalte Chalte is on it...just as I was finishing up this post the song started playing lol isnt that something

Rajesh bhai you are VERY talkative aren't you lol :rolleyes:

But I'm surprised that you're in so much shock lol I never seen you this surprised :p

and yes, you'll get "shaadi ka invitation" if you dont say anything to -her- lol...FOR NOW...and yes yaar you're right, she IS one of the reasons I am considering U of T, a PARTIAL reason but STILL a reason :o

and thats crazy that that song started playing lol

whos getting married?

u and sahar

fantasticguy/Raj1, read from like pg 5 lol

haha gajjar!
thaz wut u tell me wen i get confused..
--rite bak at you!

read it yourself..! :p

u and sahar
__________________
me???

no the other sahar :p

ahaha Rahul thaz such a nice avvie! lol
dignified gangsta ;) lol

didnt know there was another sahar in this forum...is there another 1???

lol

awwww saharie i was bein sarcastic..
jus messin around :p

ah missen around...... :D

hmm

what's with the hmm RAJ ??? :33:

nthing

ok.... :9:

;) sahar

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..

well if yah feeling something different for the opposite, they the cnt be yah friend can he/ her ? lolz


of course guy ands gals can be friends man

you need to think traditional yaar :P

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..

i think yes they can stay as frends
i gt so manys as frends
i hav neva fallen in
love with them

but sumtyms u hav 2 start a relationship with a frendship
then it goes on to love.
so for example if u love some1 but u hav neve spoken
2 them then u wnt 2 start with frendship.

so i think yes u can stay as frend

;) sahar
: :3: :7:

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this topic's still here??
wow.. i've said it like 100 times before.. n yes they can b jst friends!!!

of course not..

of course they can.......i've been friends w/ a guy 4 3 years now.....and it's nothing more than friendship...
buh yea it is hard in sum cases like mine!!!!!! um cause i also like the guy...hehe

told yah soo..its not possible:D

i dont think it is possible for a guy and a gal to remain just friends...

somebody finds out..:D

: :3: :7:

Sahar in urs siggy why do u close both eyes together??

Are u exactly like this....i mean urs personality.

well they can still be jus friends......kind of

Yhhh.........They can be frnds :)

i have guy friends..
i mean..they can still be hot...lol
but theres no love nor hate between us..
like...we're friends.

not like we go to movies together or nething...
but wen one of us needs sumtin..
de otha is dere from em...

yh thaz east fo u 2 say rhoot...cuz i cant think of any1 falling in love wiv you :D

geeheheheh haan bhoot ji they can juss be frnds
raela is thinkin very sukkel !!! heheheh wots that :p

im thinkin sukkel>>???
hehe dunno whut u mean muda..

lolz yh really

lol Raela...chup na :p
stupid...haha
as stupid as u are, u're rite :p lol

lol
u gusy still fighting??

aww we'll see some cat fight here :

bring it on
im sure raela will get bhoot

yep they can remain frends - 1 of my best mates is male and he like a bro to me and me a sis to him - we talk about each others relationships and give advise - we both in serious relationships with other ppl but always know we there for each other for advise and can trust each other to cnfide

But considering them as your brother is different than just being friends.

Yes girls and guys can be friends and never have love come in between. My example would be of my best friends.

We are frends but cnsider as bro and sis as we ther as a bro and sis wld be ther for u - i cnsider all ma gal mates as ma sisters too - coz i feel to be able to see some1 and care 4 some1 as ur own bro/sis shows how close frends u really r - how i wld do nething 4 ma family id do 4 them

ahem ahem

We are frends but cnsider as bro and sis as we ther as a bro and sis wld be ther for u - i cnsider all ma gal mates as ma sisters too - coz i feel to be able to see some1 and care 4 some1 as ur own bro/sis shows how close frends u really r - how i wld do nething 4 ma family id do 4 them


True, par even if they're not your real siblings you can still care about them. Just being friends, without making any family relations with them. They can still be friends.

^^^dat is soo sweet TopGal

tru say akz...
like me n ma friend.. we went to the same scul for jst one year.. n weren't even in the same classes.. buh we grew so close to each otha.. we were jst like blood sistas... it's like we knew each otha since birth!!!

sumtimes guys friends are indeed betta then girl friends.. girls can be soo bitchy at time hehe lolz

but still a guy and gal can stay friends but at the end it will turn into luv..1 of them will get others feelins than just friendship..

dats is so true.. about gyals mates bein bitchy.. wid guys u can b open..

I think a guy and gurl can b frends however if feelings are 2 develop and they both express them.. then they can never go bk 2 being the way they were even if they tried.. dats y its best not 2 say anything at all in da 1st place even if u feel something towards the gurl/guy.. personal opinion,, sum myt disagree

:)

^^ Raj bas sirf smiley.. :p koi comment nahi?

kabhi kabhi smile bhi kaam kar jaati hai

aww nice

kabhi kabhi smile bhi kaam kar jaati hai

aww k :) :) :)

heheheeheh did it work ashy?

nice smile aishy

aww... yeh it did Adi

ahem.. thanx Raj ;) 4 u :D

yay! heheeh

aww so sweet aishy
btu u dun need to say thanks :)

awww shooo shweet Raj :)

hmmm kida like kuch kuch hota hai- i guess a guy n a girl always end up going out

naww not alwayzzz

do u think a boy n gurl can always remain friend...cant they ever feel something diff then just being friend..
Depends of if they feeling mutual about each other or if the feeling is onesided only....


I think a guy and girl can stay friends with out other feeling lurking behind close doors and stay friends forever but it's also possible that down the road one of or the two them can start feeling alot more then friendship for each other in which case could ruin their freindship if the relationship ends horribly...so it's better to stay cool with your boyfriend then risky and sometimes it's better to risky so you won't always regret not taking action when you look back....


I'm kinda of 50/50 on this one....

aishy :)

nice thoughts there

only if da girl iz seein sum1.....else

ohhh

yeh think if the girl is seein someone else then they can stay mates but otherwise mostly always one of them (usually the guy) starts having mo feelings than just frends and if they nt careful could lose frendship over it.
im talkin from experience but things seem to be ok with us now coz we've talked and sorted things out

i think a gurl and guy can stay friends if they want 2 but usally one or the other has a more than friendship feeling like wat Sufina said :) but i've got one very close friend whos a guy but i only have feelings 4 him as a mate nuffin else and the same wiv him im sure coz he talks to me about his gul problems and stuff..lol :)

btw...sufina? im glad things r working wiv u and ur ex :D

lol i wasnt talkin about my ex! cox he dnt stay in touch anymore...i wanted to stay frends with him but he said he couldnt coz it wouldnt be fair on him coz he loves me too much. i still love him aswell. im talkin about my frend Phil. he always tells me he has feelings for me bt we still good frends. and recently i started havin feelings for him too...bt we stayin frends coz its complicated!

^^^awww!!

I think they can! Why not? There are somethings called 'Understanding" and "trust" :p

100% ho saktha hai yar.....as amol said '"Understanding" and "trust" .............dey can be bro n sis 2......hehehe!......n she can wish him......HAPPY RAKSHA BANDHAN!!!as its 2day!!!neyway 2 all my BROS HAPPY RAKSHA BANDHAN!!!!frm did sis....uuummmmmm
byeeee!!:)

cool! it is possible but i still think one person will always have more than frenship feelings even if they dnt admit it.

lol i wasnt talkin about my ex! cox he dnt stay in touch anymore...i wanted to stay frends with him but he said he couldnt coz it wouldnt be fair on him coz he loves me too much. i still love him aswell. im talkin about my frend Phil. he always tells me he has feelings for me bt we still good frends. and recently i started havin feelings for him too...bt we stayin frends coz its complicated!

oh ok..mistake..lol :o will if u and him have feeling 4 each other then what can be complicated :confused: i dont know..i keep thinking tat when 2 ppl fall inlove then they can be 2gether easily...but its never the case is it :(

Society produces problems

guess it does...but its so sad :(

oh ok..mistake..lol :o will if u and him have feeling 4 each other then what can be complicated :confused: i dont know..i keep thinking tat when 2 ppl fall inlove then they can be 2gether easily...but its never the case is it :(

Hey Elham...wish it was that easy. Amol is rite...its society. he was a Sikh and i am a Muslim. plus the other thing is he was 8 years older than me. so i was gettin worried for him coz he wouldnt consider gettin arranged marriage. and he wasnt gettin any younger! wenever i told him he used to get angry and say if he couldnt marry me he wouldnt get married...wich is really sweet but i was thinking of him. i knw he wanted children so i had to let him go...
we used to talk about having kids...he was guna call our girl Aleesha and our boy Hrithik

Hey Elham...wish it was that easy. Amol is rite...its society. he was a Sikh and i am a Muslim. plus the other thing is he was 8 years older than me. so i was gettin worried for him coz he wouldnt consider gettin arranged marriage. and he wasnt gettin any younger! wenever i told him he used to get angry and say if he couldnt marry me he wouldnt get married...wich is really sweet but i was thinking of him. i knw he wanted children so i had to let him go...
we used to talk about having kids...he was guna call our girl Aleesha and our boy Hrithik

awwwwwwwwwwww..tats so sweet :o and sad coz you cant be 2gether :( you 2 were deeply inlove :o age isnt a big issue its the faith i think..will my parents wornt care about the age but as a muslim my family will prefer my husband 2 be a muslim 2. Will they say theres sum1 sumwhere made 4 u...so if you and ur ex cant be 2gether maybe he wasnt the 1...you'll find him ;)

thanx elham...ye thats wt i keep tellin myself. i still love him tho but i can deal with it now. there are still some days wen i really miss him loads. and sometimes i think wt if he has forgotten me, but i knw im just bein silly. i really wish him the best and hope he is happily married now.

awwww...you know tat would make a number 1 bollywood movie ;) lol joking :p

will theres a time were every1 goes through tat needs to be sorted and moved on...u 2 know you cant be 2gether and moved on although it hurt..but like i said the right 1 will come to ur life sooner or later ;) and i wish u all the best in it...but dont 4get to tell us wen u do :D ...i've got a long way till i find mine..lol

lol dnt wory il let u guys knw! and ye it does sound like a bollywood movie! i dnt mind u sayin that!

oh ok :) ...ill try and get a bollywood movie wiv this stroy :D ill call it :confused: sufina :D

aww thats real cute and sad but hey u know Elham is rite inshalla u'l get involved in a relationship wiv inshalla a muslim guy so no society problem there and i bet he'l love u sooo much that ur'l be carazy not to except it ;) plus bout ur sikh friends ur feelings for him will wear of but remain special cause of the bond of understanding u must of had :) so dont be sad cause u never know wen or where but u'l find him!!! soz for bein sooo musshey :) but its all the truth ;)

awwwww...lol thank yeh it was a bit mushy! but its all rite wt u just sed, it is sad but i knw il move on wen the time comes for me to think of my future. one thing i have learnt is nt to get involved with anyone who i will have complications with in regard to marriage! sometimes i think its nt fair...bt i guess thats life. and who knws maybe there is someone beta waiting for me. coz as they say matches are already made for us in heaven!
btw Elham...that name for a bollywood movie nt too gud! think of sumat beta!

yeap ur so rite:) u know most muslim guys are really nice so i guess u can count urself lucky and wen mr rite comes for u i bet he'l be like twice wot u diserve ;)

ya i totally agree wiv amena...and ya ill find my romeo insha allah but i wornt be crazy over him..lol :p and anyway its a long way still..im only 14 so you'll have 2 find ur romoe b4 mine amena :p

about the movie name...hmmmm....ill think of name that suits the story :D but ill be in it :p

i'm too busy to be goin out lookin for romeos hehe :P

lol ok Elham...bt keep thinkin bt dnt forget i get the starring role with my huni (ex) ! u can have a small role in the movie if u want!

i'm too busy to be goin out lookin for romeos hehe :P

lol...then he'll come looking 4 u ;)

lol ok Elham...bt keep thinkin bt dnt forget i get the starring role with my huni (ex) ! u can have a small role in the movie if u want!

fine u get the starring role :D ....but then who am i gona be..hmm. :confused: jst the director.. :p

erm...u can be one of them ppl in the background. u knw if its a shopping scene then a shopper or sumthing! lol

:eek: :eek: WAT?? ME BE SUM1 AT THE BACKGROUND???? lol..no way..im the director remeber...and if it becomes a BIG hit i get the most money :D hehe :D

lol....ahhh i get it now. u want to b the director so u can get all the money...?!!! hmmm....maybe i shud b the director aswell as the star of the movie!

lol..no no its nothing like tat :p ill be the director coz im talented for it :D

lol yeh yeh! thats wt they all say...hmmm...!

lol...ok 4get the movie :p jst wen u get famouse dont 4get to mention that it was me tat came up wiv making this story into a bollywood film..ok? :D

lol ok...! mite even let u direct it bt i get a percentage aswell!

i get 50% and the other 50% will be divided between u and the others :p hehe

nooooooooooooooo!!!! u get 40 and i get 60!

will i still get the most coz the 60 will be divided between u and the others in the movie..so all of u will probley get :confused: hmmm..20% :D hehe

no! i meant 40 60 between just us two...forget the others lol!!!!

can be can be not..if shes ur friend...tell her dil to dil hai.. dil pagal hai.. ismein dil ka kya kasoor ..jab pass ho aisa huzzor

lol..ok sufi DEAL :D

and raj wat wat u mean :confused: i dont get it

deal!! yeh!

raj?

:)

lol

i meant is.. like guy n gurl can remain friend..and if u do get attracted ,..sing the song i said... dil to dil hai..dil pagal hai...pagal dil hai.. ismein dil ka kya kasoor.. jab pass ho aisa huzoor... means heart is heart..heart is mad...its not his fault..when u got such a lovely partner near u.
hope tht explains

can be can be not..if shes ur friend...tell her dil to dil hai.. dil pagal hai.. ismein dil ka kya kasoor ..jab pass ho aisa huzzor

hey thats quite cleever ;) and kinda funny cause it all links hehe, how did they not get that well that Elham is kinda slow :rolleyes: lolz

Hehehe...I thought Elham never got it 'cause she doesn't understand Hindi that well....maybe.....aaah well.

i didnt understand coz me and elham were makin business deals...lol! and then Raj just kinda jumped in with that comment and didnt explain...lol!

Oh...I guess that was to put the topic back on track... :D Business deal?....you guys... :p

wow u lot talking about me :D lol

will...business is business...and amena im not tat slow :p only sumtimes :confused:

ya raj ur right! its kinda hard to resist the temptation off fulling inlove wiv ur firend as the 2 get on and understand each other...making a good couple if one thinks of it :)

i guess srk's rite love is friendship ;) i mean if he/her is ur friend first u know them really well then can make it work cause of the level of understanding between them!!!

amena...u mean raj not srk :p

well srk mite think like that in real life too :p

oh ya..so true :D

i know many gurls who dont have the understanding of friendship with their husbands..will i guess that the problem wen u get an arraigned maridge :(

yeh bt i think everyone can fall in love with anyone. that includes arranged marriage. u both just need to be willin to put time and effort into each other!

even though u cant love sum1 as much as u will love sum1 naturally..in an arraged maridgge its more like being forced to :(

nah not really if both the people are willing to make an effert ;)

exactly wt i sed. Elham arranged marriage isnt a negative think. i actually tht its sweet to meet someone and then love them from who ur parents have chose. and loving someone wen u meet them urself and loving someone wen it is arranged is the same. like i sed everyone can love anyone in this world!

its a challange ul have to take ;) it sounds like fun huh!!!

lol yeh!

FUN..wat u lot saying :eek: i understand wat u lot are trying 2 say..but this kind of maridge is so hard..:confused: ill only get married like tat if i dont find romeo wen i reach the age of 30..lol :p

aww well im kinda happy wiv the whole arrange marriage thingy cause i dont wanna be alone all the way till im thirty :p i want some1 to play fight wiv lolz :p

ohh i keep usin the wrong emotion at the end of that i meant ;)
lolz i know im stupid!!!

Hehehe....you posted again just to tell us about a smiley... :p ...you could have edited your post... :D

lol..tats coz she IS stupid :p

and amena?? hoe could u play fight wiv ur husband..:eek: you'll kill him :p

lol cheeky!

bt im up for the whole arranged marriage. that just means im nt lookin for anyone, bt if they come along thats cool and if nt im up for arranged marriage. bt i aint lookin for a relationship.
if it happens it happens!!!

oh ok...will u r kind of right but i woudn't want tat to happen to me :o how could u go wiv sum1 u dont even know will :confused:

i'm kinda scared bout both love and arranged cause well my first impressions always seem to go down the drain and oo wouldnt wanna freak him out he'l give up way to quick lolz

lol...hw old r u amena? if u dnt mind me askin!
im scared aswell and talks abt me gettin married are just round the corner!
iv already had a few proposals, bt i sed no coz im still studyin.
it is scary! bt exciting at the same time

wow congrates u ;) i'm 18!! its good u said no cause yea education comes first i still got ages neway thank good!!!!!!!!!!! i dont actually wanna think bout marriage stuff cause it makes me feel like i'm gettin old way to quick!!!!!!! btw how old are u if u dont mind me askin ;)

lol its ok...im 20. guna be 21 soon! yeh study comes first. so will think about marriage wen im 23 wen i graduate. well il graduate b4 that at 22 bt u knw wt i mean!

hehe...as soon as i get a proposal im out of the house :D hehe...

elham wanna get married

Raj, dont scare her!!!!!!!! shes only 14 so go pick on some1 ur own size :p
Elham wot if ur hubby wants to be "garl gamaee" then wot u gonna do :p

im not picking on her
geez

well dont freak her out wiv a proposel so early in life :p however i'm sure she'l get a line of them so wait till ur time comes for her to say no, i meen even elham knows better then to say yes to u raj :p hehhe!!

oie oie stop making it a scene.. ur making it look like i proposed her lol

lol well there nothin to be embarashed about :p wow u should do that though hehe make a scene ;) dont go too far like salman in mujhsi shaadi karogi but use ure creative mind if u got one :p

nah i dun plan to create a scene :p

ohh but i'm sure every1 would love to see it ;) i'm sure uve got a tiny bit of a drama king in u :p

nah i never proposed any gurl ...

theres a first time for everthing ;) its better late then never :p

yeh there is time..so let it be tht way :p

hehehe......

aww look at u goin all red!! :p

lol iv had proposals...bt never actually seen the guys...?! hmm...oh ye except for this one guy. he was called Imran. he's creepy! lol still see him sometimes in the bus and stuff lol!

sufie ..whut happend wiv the guy frm turkey..?
i fogot his name it was summet wiv an H..hissan?hersan? lol

lol iv had proposals...bt never actually seen the guys...?! hmm...oh ye except for this one guy. he was called Imran. he's creepy! lol still see him sometimes in the bus and stuff lol!

have they seen u or like a picture of u, it be weird to bump into one of them turn into good friends and later relize that the proposel came from them lolz that be weird!!! hey y's imran creepy there must of been some reason ;)

lol he was just weird..coz like he is a frend of my family. and he stayed at my aunts house wen he came from india. so like on my 18th bday he gave me a present and a card, coz he thort id agree to marry him. bt my mum had already told him i sed no! and he's known me like since i was 3. wen i went india wen i was 3 they all sed he used to like me then too! he was abt 5! lol...we've gt some old pics of him holdin my hand and stuf...yuk!!

yeh and leila he was called Haris. and havnt heard from him for ages :sad_smile oh well guess he has moved on plus it used to cost me alot to stay in touch anyway!! lol

nah why wuld i go all red? :p

nah why wuld i go all red? :p

emm u could go to mirror and ask urself that question :p

lol he was just weird..coz like he is a frend of my family. and he stayed at my aunts house wen he came from india. so like on my 18th bday he gave me a present and a card, coz he thort id agree to marry him. bt my mum had already told him i sed no! and he's known me like since i was 3. wen i went india wen i was 3 they all sed he used to like me then too! he was abt 5! lol...we've gt some old pics of him holdin my hand and stuf...yuk!!

yeh and leila he was called Haris. and havnt heard from him for ages :sad_smile oh well guess he has moved on plus it used to cost me alot to stay in touch anyway!! lol

aww thats kinda cute that he liked u from childhood, u could atleast pretend ur interested in him to make his day :p lol

nah i dnt think so lol! trust me he just weird!!! plus even my mum didnt want me to marry him lol!

LOL...weird in wat way sufi..lol..it sounds kinda rude wen u call him "werid" but funny :D...wat does he freaky u out our sumthing??

HEY U 2...stop talking about me..and raj yes i do want 2 get married now :o but wen im 16...will not really..no i dont know really...maybe...GOD im jst confused...ill get married wen im 19 :D

hey raj i think AMENA likes u..dont u amena :p hehe..coz u keep teasing him

lol oooooooooooh Amena likes Raj!!! lol

hey Elham, i find him weird coz...erm...well i dnt knw really, sometimes wen he talks he reminds me of a girl lol and he's always to shy or scared to talk to me! So wen my aunt and everyone with us they tease him on purpose and i just laff bt he goes all shy. lol....i dnt knw!

...or maybe it could be that he's just shy!.... :p

hey raj i think AMENA likes u..dont u amena :p hehe..coz u keep teasing him

elham and sufi u guys are so mean :p i teese every1 doesnt mean i like every1 in that way u know :p teesings my fun hobby so i'm gonna keep it!!!!!!!!

lol...ya ya watever :meeny" :p y dont u get married to raj :p

lol sufi ur so mean yaar...there r guys like tat u know...but guess a guy shouldn't be shy..its not being a MAN..lol :p

lol...ya ya watever :meeny" :p y dont u get married to raj :p

well i got loadsa time elham but i know u cant wait so y dont u :p

awww...so u dont mind marrying him then :p lol...i will if the right one comes meeny :p

r u makin rumers bout me :( and then u call me meany!!! :p ... its k ;)

lol...im only joking "meeny" :p go marry ur good for nothing vivek :p lol

lol....hey elham im nt mean, i just dnt like that guy! he is weird and just coz he is shy. cnt explain it!

lol..."wired" LOOL...god wat a word to explain a guy :p

i think i guy and a girl can remain friends. there is no question about that. i mean, i've known some guyz since the 7th grade, i couldn't think i've falling in love with them, no matter how long i know them. its just impossible. they have their own girlfriends, who are like my best friends, so i can never hurt my friends like that. i think its very likely that a guy and girl that are friends will always remain friends.

married to her?? oh no i dun wanna get ruined :p
haha jk

can n cannot zara but its good u have a good experience so far....
ah i knew elham u wanna get married... 19 just 3 yrs left
it will fly soon haha

i dun think so
love jus finds its way in between em...lol

love is in the air !! hehe

yupp....exactly....its always ready to trap people...lol
if u guys know wht i mean

yeh i get u

nah ishq mein ho generation gap...hum milke karenge aaj love rap la la

cool

wow....did u write tht urself
u must be a singer...amazing...u r so good man

woha wohaa...itna kuch
are itna nah kaho... kahi gheer nah javu
are no...m not good or anything

its a line from a song... found it good so said it :)

lol.....oh i see

its the thought tht counts.. like say rt stuff rt time hehe

dosti n pyaar does hand in hand

yupp so truee

lol yapp

did u ever?? fall in love?

i dun think so :thinking:

oh beautiful..

why is it beautiful

cause u dun think so
falling in love i find it beautiful..and not falling .. i find it beautiful as well..
so i said beautiful