Hidden Truth About Everyone

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This is a new topic which I am introducing for a debate, its going to be very challenging one and has a very very very very secret hidden topic and highly critical one which challenges arises many questions. My explanation might be very disgusting or vague or mixed or emotional but its a question which no egoistic man can answer. It does not mean a man should not have ego but it challenges a controlled behaviour of a man which only few mens have.

It can be answered only with truth and answers with ego and manhood problems cannot lead it anywhere.

So here it goes..

Hello Everyone,

I have to tell people and make them understand about certain things.

It is about the affairs, extra-marital relationships and divorces happening all over.

Not sure if this is the right way to start but looking into all the super stars of our bollywood industries who create a lot of impact on our kids, their
lifestyles and their thoughts. They have more responsibility than just a career and their own family life, its like they are setting an example for the
generations to come.

When Azharuddin and Amir Khan left their wives for another womens of their fantasy, this created a lot of disturbance on the audience.

I want to speak for all the cheatings, extra-marital affairs and divorces.

When a boy or a girl cheats, the signs are very clear, so the innocent people being cheated need to awaken and break up and not to accept the relationship inspite of that. I want to tell them that PLEASE GUYS LEARN TO SAY 'NO', HAVE 'PATIENCE', YOU WILL CERTAINLY FIND SOMEONE REALLY WORTH OF IN THE NEAR FUTURE, YOU JUST NEED TO WORK HARD FOR YOUR CAREER AND WAIT. DONOT SUBMIT YOURSELF OR LET ANY RUTHLESS PERSON TO HURT YOUR FEELINGS. (Getting bit emotional here)

Extra-marital affairs and divorces happen due to these reasons:

GOOD HUSBANDS generally cheat wives or get divorced because:

-they need to have fun for sometime
-frustration of work or too much pressure
-nagging wife
-ugly wife or bored with or does not love her
-fantasy of achieving other womens
-wants to satisfy his ego
-wife not listening to him
-wife is being stubborn
-not being able to fulfill her wishes
-wife is more successful than him
-when he purposely wants to hurt his wife due to some reason
-not married to the girl of his choice
-attracted to other womens with lot of varieties outside
-because he is a man he craves and capable of doing that
-while some mens are just prone to it

GOOD WIVES cheat husband or get divorced because they want to continue with their career, to ignore their husbands extra-marital affair, they are not physically satisfied by their husband or some womens are just prone to it.

NOW LETS SWITCH THE THOUGHTS OF THE GOOD WIVES AND GOOD HUSBANDS FOR SOMETIME AND SEE WHAT HAPPENS IF, A WOMAN DOES SOMETHING A MAN DO AND A MAN DOES SOMETHING A WOMAN CAN DO.

Let husbands have the extra-marital affair because their wives are cheating on them, because their wives cannot physically satisfy them, else because husband want to continue with working late and wife being lonely AND cannot accept it.

Let the wives have the extra-marital affair because:
-they need to have fun for sometime
-frustration of household work and nasty kids
-nagging husband due to his work frustration
-ugly husband and no physical satisfaction
-fantasy of achieving other good looking mens
-want to satisfy her ego because her husband is always
watching Beyonce
-husband being stubborn about everything and not listening to her
-not being able to cook properly
-husband being consistent in his career got successful and she
left her job for him when they got married so now she is completely dependent on him and so not competitive and earning as compared to other single womens to
which her husband is getting attracted to
-when she purposely wants to hurt her husband due to some reason
-not married to the husband of her choice
-attracted to other mens with lot of varieties outside
-because he is a longing woman who craves physical satisfaction and capable of doing that
-while some womens are just prone to it

Did mens really realize what will happen if their wives start doing all the things which they have been doing.
My question is what will people say:

1) If, Amir Khan's wife left him and her kids and got married to another man

2) If, Azharuddin's wife left him and his kids and got married to Dino Morea

3) If, Jaya Bhaduri had an affair with Vinod Mehra will Amitabh Bacchan will accept her back.

MY QUESTION IS WHY INDIAN MAN CANNOT ACCEPT HIS WIFE HAVING AN EXTRA MARITAL AFFAIR?

IF A MARRIED MAN CAN LOVE ANOTHER WOMAN THEN WHY CANT A MARRIED WOMAN LOVE ANOTHER MAN?

WHY DO INDIAN MENS THINK ONLY THIS WAY THAT SINCE HE IS A MAN HE CAN GO TO OTHER WOMAN BUT HIS WIFE SHOULD NOT, WHY THIS ANIMAL TREATMENT, EVEN A WOMAN IS A HUMAN BEING, SHE HAS FEELING TOO, SHE ALSO GETS HURT, THEN WHY THIS MAN AND WOMAN THING.

MY QUESTION IS WHY DOES A MARRIED MAN DOES NOT STICK TO HIS WORDS ABOUT BEING LOYAL AND WHY HE COMMITS FOR MARRIAGE WHEN HE IS NOT STRONG ENOUGH TO SUSTAIN THE MARRIAGE?

Please post this message because i need to know what people think. I am looking for an answer which is free from ego and free from bond of manhood. The same manhood and orthodox thought which said that a woman should live a sad life of lonliness after her husband dies, she has to shave her head and become 'vidhva' or become 'sati' by burning herself in the fire.

Why people cannot see this silent fire of 'sati' in another form of affairs and divorce which is eating the womens from inside and this is certainly going to
burst out one day.

u want 2 c sum1 else rather than ur hubby go ahead!

uncle don is keen to be ur hubby^^n :D

It's a patriachal world, a man is forced NOT to take her back, while the woman is forced 2 take him back. Times are changing however, and things are balancing out.

all i'm saying is tat after marraige if both of them sense things are not working out, then it is better for both of them to leave the relationship. That doesn't necessarily mean that the man isn't strong enough to sustain a marraige, it just goes to show that ppl can change with time. The woman he knew before the marraige does not necessarily have to be woman he knows after.

and if the question is that why should loyal wives accept back men who betrayed them then things are a bit different.

most women are strong mentally and thats why they tolerate even the most arrogant situations in a very calm manner. but at the same time i cannot say the same thing for men. yes there are some men who are mentally strong, but most of them are not. If women were to betray their husbands they would not be able to abide with it. So, i'm not saying it is right for women to keep accepting what their husbands do, no matter how wrong it is, i'm saying that if the woman knows her husband is unfaithful then it is fully up to her to decide what she should do with him. if she chooses to still be in the relationship with the man then she has no one else to blame other than herself when she is hurt. but at the same time if she chooses to leave the relationship then yes many ppl (especially in our culture) will look down at her, but atleast she has self satisfaction.
and even the ppl in our culture now are changing their ways of thinking, so clearly women have more rights now and can make decisions of her own.