Friends w/ ur ex?

wat do u all think bout ppl who r friends with their ex? is it right? should they be friends??


well, in my opinion, i hate it when after a guy breaks up wid a girl he asks her to just be friends. i mean if u just wanted to end up as friends, why did u go out?? its really annoying, and if a guy dat just broke up wid me said dat, i would probably slap him across da face. :D lolz but yeah, i don't like dat being friends wid ur ex idea. i don't know wat u girls think, but to me dat feels like he just wanted an excuse to get away frm me w/o breaking my heart, and looking bad in front of other ppl. it would really hurt me if da guy dat i luved just wanted me to be his friend like everyone else. i would rather hve him hate me.

i'd rather him be my friend, than hate me...
see the thing is, i am not hate-able..but stilll...
(lol..shuttup, okayy..)
it would defo be akward..but thaz the best way...jusy say you're friends..
and then totally avoid each other :D lol

lolz

yeah, but see i'm not dat type of person, and i'm not dat forgiving either. it would just make me feel really dumb, i mean think about it, ur friends r like, so wats up wid u and ur bf? and u say, o yeah we r just friends now. wouldn't dat make u feel dumb, and make dem know dat u got dumped?

to me it would be better to just say we broke up , and i hate him and he hates me :D lolz dats much better

hmm...if they were my friends i'd tell them the WHOLE story bout how i dumped him, and he didnt dump me...hahaha!
i dunno...just friends sounds better....
or like "no..we dont really see each other too much nemore"
i guess it different for every situation..
depends why u broke up n wut not...

well lets say dat he just said dat he wanted to be friends, not gf n bf, den would u still do daat??

yeah.....i'd be like "hmm..yeah....alrite..."
and then i'd tell everyone that he finally found his true self, and that he is gay. LOL

no, i wouldnt..
i would agree on just being friends..but then i wouldnt talk to him much...a hi in the hallway or w/e is enuf..u know..dun be hangin around him too much...lol

but wat if he talked to u? as a friend?

see there r to many probs related wid all dat, i would just tell him to get lost and find his own friend :D lolz and move on wid my life, no need to keep ppl frm da past dat hurt me with me

being friends with ur ex is good i feel... cause u knw... he knows so much abt u..and u wuld feel comfortable telling him or talking with him...rather then trusting some strangers its good...and if ur friends..its not like he hates u really.. he just didnt wish to c u as gf or wht he thought before has changed... theres nothing wrong in being friends wiff Ex..

wat do u all think bout ppl who r friends with their ex? is it right? should they be friends??


well, in my opinion, i hate it when after a guy breaks up wid a girl he asks her to just be friends. i mean if u just wanted to end up as friends, why did u go out?? its really annoying, and if a guy dat just broke up wid me said dat, i would probably slap him across da face. :D lolz but yeah, i don't like dat being friends wid ur ex idea. i don't know wat u girls think, but to me dat feels like he just wanted an excuse to get away frm me w/o breaking my heart, and looking bad in front of other ppl. it would really hurt me if da guy dat i luved just wanted me to be his friend like everyone else. i would rather hve him hate me.


awwww, did u break up with ur BF?




llol kidding, but ye, for me it depends if i wanna stay friends with the girl or not. depends on how the girl was during the relationship and the reason for breakup.

man oh man if i had a bf and we broke up
i would still want to stay friends with him because to me just coz we were couples once i dont want FRIENDSHIP to be ruin because we were once couple, and i think that way better it shows that we both dont hate each other (which i bet we wont if i had one) it just shows we still have a relationship going on between us and dat relationship is Friendship now

i agree with what raj said

being friends with ur ex is good i feel... cause u knw... he knows so much abt u..and u wuld feel comfortable telling him or talking with him...rather then trusting some strangers its good...and if ur friends..its not like he hates u really.. he just didnt wish to c u as gf or wht he thought before has changed... theres nothing wrong in being friends wiff Ex..

first of all raj, i think u should know dat most girls, wouldn't want to discuss how they feel about other things wid there ex, i mean dats wat friends dat r girls are for. lolz yeah i'm sure all of da girls here agree wid me on dat part.

being friends with ur ex is good i feel... cause u knw... he knows so much abt u..and u wuld feel comfortable telling him or talking with him...rather then trusting some strangers its good...and if ur friends..its not like he hates u really.. he just didnt wish to c u as gf or wht he thought before has changed... theres nothing wrong in being friends wiff Ex..

first of all raj, i think u should know dat most girls, wouldn't want to discuss how they feel about other things wid there ex, i mean dats wat friends dat r girls are for. lolz yeah i'm sure all of da girls here agree wid me on dat part.

awwww, did u break up with ur BF?




llol kidding, but ye, for me it depends if i wanna stay friends with the girl or not. depends on how the girl was during the relationship and the reason for breakup.

will we still be friends? u know...baad mein...lol

yeh reason for breakup is very important...and how both of the individuals take it...
there are some issues which u dun speak with friends... yeh diff ppl have diff opinion.. but i still think..they r safe ones to talk to

naah, i don't agree wid dat

but it seems like me n u never agree wid dis relationship stuff :D lolz

yupps we never did... n dun think will.. cause u think diff and so do i :)
well thinking hai anyways

wht u upto?

wat do u all think bout ppl who r friends with their ex? is it right? should they be friends??


well, in my opinion, i hate it when after a guy breaks up wid a girl he asks her to just be friends. i mean if u just wanted to end up as friends, why did u go out?? its really annoying, and if a guy dat just broke up wid me said dat, i would probably slap him across da face. :D lolz but yeah, i don't like dat being friends wid ur ex idea. i don't know wat u girls think, but to me dat feels like he just wanted an excuse to get away frm me w/o breaking my heart, and looking bad in front of other ppl. it would really hurt me if da guy dat i luved just wanted me to be his friend like everyone else. i would rather hve him hate me.

nopes i wouldnt i mean dumping and then for his own guilt trying to be friends
noo way! he aint worth it! unless its the other way around!...
but nah i wouldnt stillbe friends coz wen u do it leads to a more complicated
situation!

nopes i wouldnt i mean dumping and then for his own guilt trying to be friends
noo way! he aint worth it! unless its the other way around!...
but nah i wouldnt stillbe friends coz wen u do it leads to a more complicated
situation!

true say...

but again...it depends on the situation na....


personally i wouldnt be able to confide in a person after having broken up wid him..but thaz just meeeeee :D

If he dumps me *which hasnt happen yet or ever will coz stuck to aksh for the rest*
i wouldnt be friends with him ever ever again... but instead i willl sooo torment him
and make him realise how Gem ussne khoya hai!:D looool
yeah then at the end he comes begging and touching my feet to plead me
to take him back..! and then ill shooot him in the head *nah tats just fantasy*
a big desi THAPPAR will do! soo then he will have my hand mark on his
face for the rest of his life!...which he mite enjoy
thinking it as my pyaar ki nishani :D *NOT*

^loooolz

finally there is someone dat agrees wid me :D

will we still be friends? u know...baad mein...lol


no we wnt be. we be worse enemies in a couple of years.

no we won't be. we'll be worst enemies in a couple of years.

yaar...no...we dont have to be best friends..but not worst enemies, okay?
okay u can totally avoid me; just dont hate me, okay?
lol..

u made sum grammatical errors in that post....i fixed em for you when i quoted you.

no yaar, its suppose to be "we be"

i knw what i wrote ok. lol

no yaar, its suppose to be "we be"



i knw what i wrote ok. lol


i didnt mean that part--i meant...u used worse instead of worst...hmm...
wait that makes sense too tho...
alritey im sorryyyy yaar...u're rite..



man wenever i wanna go to sleep--a good song comes!

hey, will we really be worst enimies?

lol, no yaar. ofcourse we wnt be worse enemies. dnt get worried now.

ur wrong this time, admite it bhoot, admit it.!

hahah yikes! u really had me worried there...i'd signed out, but kept sittin here twiddling my thumbs, waiting for a reply...


no...i only said u were right because i thot u were gussa and i didnt want u to be...

but u know...when i look at it fer the THIRD time....u are actually right.

oh no..lol.....whats rong wid me?! well its 12:30.....so....no wait, thats not an excuse...u live in de same time zone..

alrite u got me! lol

lol, yes thats not an excuse. r u really sleepy?

i just ordered pizza pizza, come a join me.

yaar...not fair...no i am not sleepy at all....hella hungry tho!
well enjoy your pizza....thats good eh...delivery at midnite..

lol, yes i thought id give it a try, and they actually deliver.
well, i was actually gonna make u pay the bill, because i just looked in my wallet and no money. gotta visit the bank machine before i take the elevator down. lol

oOo u can do that eh...
i have a little bank account...and a debit card and everything..but i dunno howta use it..i mean, i've never used it before...hahah...i should learn eh!

hmmm.
how do you manage to do your shopping spree's? (no offence)
It's a good thing to learn, you'll soon be needing it...

Actually, I havent used my debit card in stores, only used it to take out money.
I hate this new 'chip n pin' idea.

im not offended...
every time i go shopping, i get moneyt from my parents! :D
from the money plant. lol

remember the phrase 'Money doesn't grow out of tree's you know'

well...technically it does. Cos your money is made out of paper (wood). :)

sorry...I jus thought I might mention it.

damn it shohid!!! why did u have 2 say dat
i always teklll ma rentz and ma family
moeny doesnt grow on tree u knw why do u spend it like sooo madly???
coz it annoys me hehe


emmm bhoot same here i take it from rentz
who else??? shud we take it from? it not like we started to earn yet hehehe

i think its ok like if i hated every guy i went out with thats jsut too many people nd wrong