is it bad?

ok guys im really serious abt this.. i need ur all views on this...pls no jokes..and any lame comments...dun make me angry or so...
tell me what u think abt it..and how shuld i get out of this
there is a lady who works in nearby office of mine..shes kinda cute...and so nice n loving....i been close to her nowdays.. we been close..and share a very good time..shes so loving....we r so much into each other... problem is..shes married already and got a 5yr old kid.. but i love her so much
im just krazy abt her..shes always in my mind...we go out...we have a wonderful time... is this bad?
what shuld i do?

ok guys im really serious abt this.. i need ur all views on this...pls no jokes..and any lame comments...dun make me angry or so...
tell me what u think abt it..and how shuld i get out of this
there is a lady who works in nearby office of mine..shes kinda cute...and so nice n loving....i been close to her nowdays.. we been close..and share a very good time..shes so loving....we r so much into each other... problem is..shes married already and got a 5yr old kid.. but i love her so much
im just krazy abt her..shes always in my mind...we go out...we have a wonderful time... is this bad?
what shuld i do?


Such things do happen mostly and love dont happen after seeing the age of person or any other thing.it just happens,,i dunt think there is any problem in meeting her or going out with her but u must know the reality and u must be practical towards it.u have to reduce "the always in mind" thing by taking severe interest in other things and obsessive abt them....one more thing is that how she looks upon you ....is she possess some kind of deep interest in you and her intensity is the same as has been urs towards her..Then that case may be different.
Believe me this is just attraction and u will take over it gradually....

no shes in me as well
we love each other
ver much

hmmm...she is married that's a prob........i think there is not a chance of u getting together with her...

shes not in good terms with her husband..they r almost break up ...
she needs support..she needs me

oh yea i remember u tellin me this on msn..... oh and does her husband noe u??? anyways hope u get over it rajjar!!!

yeh he knws abt us..and me as well..
he dosent mind..cause they r on edge of breakup

Raj ...are u aware of the underlying reasons ...why they arebreaking ...what lead to this and all that...

are u sure she loves you?
shes married and has kids...!!!
i mean maybe she loves u as a friend...are u sure ur not gettin mized signals

He Siad That She Was The One Who Came On To Him!!!

u should just go up to her and say the feelings you have for her & just except her answer..........at leat you won't have to look back & say maybe she did love me

Here what u do raj, first u find out that r they in the position of getting divorced, and u have to remember that she hava a kid, and than if u wanna get with her, u gotta think about ur parents and what they gonna think about this and ur family members too???

How come u never told me abt this Raj

Hmmm

I dont feel its bad , all I can say is do what ever u feel is the right thing.

well she said she loves me...she did always says..
and there marriage...ah well they never had any good relationship...it was just at the early days of there marriage afterwards its all hatred..like i said they r in edge to finish there relationship and she needs my support now.. i cant back off...
shes such a loving and gentle lady i ever seen in my life...
shes a gem

would u be able to care foe her son ......... if things worked out between u & her

awwww thats good then na raj...........well i think u'd make a very good dad

what is thisssssssssss....how come u never told us (MEEEEEEEEEE)..that....

aww raj.......i dont think its bad....love happens like that..it doesnt see whether the other person is old..or married or stuff....it happens in blink of an eye..

umm..if she has a kid....and is ending her marriage now....and loves u very much and u love her very much also...well then go give her the support she neeeds yaaaaar....

who knows...u might finnd ur happiness...and afterall u love kids...and i m sure she will be the luckiest gal to have u.....and u will be the best dad....

P.S i m offended..howcome u never mentioned that.....

Raj i dont have enough to say but all i can say is::

No Body out here can tell u well abt urs present matter becoz all buddies here are teens and haven't seen any such situation in there life and its good to seek the advice of Professional Psychiatrist.....
No body knows the motive of woman becoz since she is breaking up with her present husband ,,its true may be her husband is not worthy but still she certainly be possessing some faults or might be presently she may be caughting u in her own web..She is quite aged,working and indeed will be smarter and must have seen life at a better reference then you but at the moment when u are obsessive about her ,,urs ability to think and take proper decision can't strike becoz such situation grabs completely the attention of the person in a wrong way.....

Believe me Pls dunt take the wrong decision ,,understand urs Parents ,,visit someone who advices on such situations ..

I have personally seen many cases in my Life where the series of marrying starts and they do 4/5 marriages...u can't really understand how much smart some women are and its been told "Never Trust a Lady"" and indeed never trust one in such situations and Pls try to become Practical for the moment and see exactly what the matter is and do research over it otherwise i see ruining of two lives -firstly the child becoz he is already five and at just this ge he can atleast recognise who his father is and he may not ever accept u as his father and secondly urs life can be devastated by one wrong Decision..

Be Careful
All the Best.

i know never trust
but i trust this one..
shes so pure..so simple...shes a classic..if u talk to her u wuld knw...sweetness strike from her words..her story was very tragic...sorry i cant tell her personal life in here...i just cant..she has gone through a lot..and now its my turn.. to give her all happiness she wanted....her dreams ill make them true

lets say u married her, what will ur family members think of? would they accept her?

^^ good one.............so would they???

ok raj..here is my 2 cents worth..

if you love her so much and you know her husband as well, can you try and help them get back together?

every marriage has problems....people try and work it out...themselves...and with the help of family and friends...

during such times, both parties are emotionally unstable...vulnerable...and when they find someone's shoulder, they may try to lean on it...

now the question is..what should that person do? i think you know my views...

my answer would have been different if they were already divorced..and that too if it was a violent divorce and it was not safe for her to go back to him...

take care bud

i agree with u Andy...thats how this problem deseves to be solved.
Either u get them together or be away.
You should not be doing anything to prevent her from reconciling whatever problems she has.Finally Let her handle it herself.

just listen to ur heart raj...and do what it says.......

u know Khushi...a person must never listen to his heart in such situations becoz it makes person weak...may be if u are ever in kind of attraction u will understand that...the power of even thinking in right direction vanishes...

yea true^^ but he loves her and i dont think its easy for him to get over her rite raj???

yeah aww

yeahh...he loves her..n he cant give her up...

yeap its hard!!! i hope he gets her though, cuz he really really love her!!!

yeah like jana loves anuj...lolz...sorri didz...just cudnt resist making fun of u

yea i love him hes ma soul mate :whatchuta

hey guys chill
it was actually a dare given to me by jana
phewww
i wuld never do anything of tht sort
kisi ki marriage ya shadi shuda aurat ke piche mujeh nahi jana.. i dun wanna ruin anyone life

ah well i was good in it though

loooooooooooooooooooool yea u were really good!!! everyone believed u!!!

GOOD JOB RAJA AND U GOTTA ADMIT IT WAS A GOOD DARE AND HE WAS BRAVE ENOUGH TO DO IT LOL!!!!

i Apologize To All Who Were Really Concerned Bout This Issue And Took It Seriously...... But It Was Jus A Dare So Please No Hard Feeling Arite!!!!

Every1 Believed Him Except Me.............lolz I Knew It



Yo Jana I Was Kidding Abt U Loving Anuj.....back Off From Him Gal..jkzz....he Is All Urss///

Ya Sure U Did........ U Were The First One To Believe It... Admit It :12:

noooooo wayyyyyyyyyy go ask aditi..i didnt believe a bit form it...i knew it...

damm......... i belived in that

lolz....but it was a kool dare..lolz

ah yeah it was...........

i know..lolz...she is awsome

dare...hmm....there are 12/13 year olds also on the site...either we should not allow them or we should be cognizant of that fact....

dat da first time i came in here and as soon as i read it i knew it was dare and JANA GAVE IT AM I RIGHT???

COZ ALL DA DARES JANA GIVES ARE SERIOUS I KNOW DAT FROM 29TH MAY 2004!!!
remember dat date jana??

ah k

yo..there is no 1 in this forum who are..12/13...all of them are over 15 or ova..lolz

heehhe

hey guys chill
it was actually a dare given to me by jana
phewww
i wuld never do anything of tht sort
kisi ki marriage ya shadi shuda aurat ke piche mujeh nahi jana.. i dun wanna ruin anyone life

ah well i was good in it though

ahhh seee i knew it was a dare... cuz u didnt even take my kasam
that day on msn and i know for a fact u would never do a thing like this
upper seh jana was the only one suporting u lol... So i had
a feeling she gave it to u and she did

heheehehe yeah

lolz....yeah...

i knew it tooo it was dare...rite iya???

dat da first time i came in here and as soon as i read it i knew it was dare and JANA GAVE IT AM I RIGHT???

COZ ALL DA DARES JANA GIVES ARE SERIOUS I KNOW DAT FROM 29TH MAY 2004!!!
remember dat date jana??


looooooooooooool i remember hahha omg lol ruby u even remember the date hahahahah yea man i dared her to tell everyone that shes was into girls hahhhahaha and everyone were like =O

ruby was brave enough to do it lol!!!

ahhh seee i knew it was a dare... cuz u didnt even take my kasam
that day on msn and i know for a fact u would never do a thing like this
upper seh jana was the only one suporting u lol... So i had
a feeling she gave it to u and she did


lol u gave him ur kasam y?? hmmmmm..... kuch to hua hai ;)

lol i wasnt the only one supporting him hahaha

aww jana..tats sho mean...u mean ruby a lesso...lolz...

tats sho mean......

No U Idiot It Was A Dare..... I Dared Her To Make A Topic And Tell Everyone That Shes A Lesbo Lol Theres Nuffin Mean Bout It..plus Ruby Didnt Think It Was Mean... She Actually Did It!! Lol

yeah..like me...telling everyone..that i luk like amirr khan as in lady....which kind of makes me... both....lolz


yo do u watch the OC????

Yea Sumtimes Lol But Not A Big Fan Of The Show!!!

i m not either..lolz...

have u seen the episode..where marissa...turns a lessso..lolz...it was on this tuesday...lolz....

No I Didnt See That Episode!!!

lolz.....i dont watch it...

i m more a fan of..Law & Order...all different ones...but SVU..n CRIMNAL INTENT rock...

and i watch CSI..>>all ...NCIS...

nearly all criime shows..lolz....

looool ....i watch csi sumtimes too.... but ma fav is days of our lives lol .... and apprentice and that 70's show is hilarious too!!!

I Know 70s..it Is...days Of Our Lives I Cant Watch...coz..its In Day...and I M At School..lolz....

here it cum@ 4pm.... :D

its 12 pm..here..:Not_Impre

ooooh thatz sad!!! do u watch passions??? omg that show is sooo freakin annoyin lol

no way...i hate it.... i wtach australian neighbours.. though...coz it has hot actions in it...yo yo...its G rated ok...

passions sooooo bad annoying

lol

eww
passions
!

i know tanu!

lol

some ppl in my klass watch it

that 70's show! lol jalebi!
fez is a gansgta! lmao

nice avvie bhootni!

lol u gave him ur kasam y?? hmmmmm..... kuch to hua hai ;)

lol i wasnt the only one supporting him hahaha

hain.... kuch be tow nahi hai ahem lol

she just wanted to knw truth nthing else

lol

some ppl in my klass watch it


u know the old lady in it..who sees through the mirror thingy...she so annoys me..lolz

lol

lolz...

man its 12:20 night..lolz... am sleepy... but i cant go to bed.... :17: :17:

Ahhh It was an Dare...This Dare was nicely Performed by Raj..The First two lines which he wrote that nobody makes fun of it kept my mind ticking ,,,,Well more sort of an general problem but Jana thinks too much....i really see lots of such cases happening ....

ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm :rolleyes:

yehh heman

kya ummm? m free mein hai kya?

yeah!
u only havta -buy- vowels! :D

whats this...wheel of fortune happening

lol khushi!

hehe yeah

and u win Bhoots kiss the worlds worst gift

ahem...i hate wheel of fortune....unless..some hottie is the price.....thn i saw so go for it..lolz

lol! o we should make Anuj de next pat sayjak...
and khushie can be vaana white! lol
pose mar-marke letters ko haat lagao.....

lol....

=)

and bhootn can be my hairdresser

oO! sounds like fun!
where's da glue? :D

avigayi mara pachad

hun pehli thi hati..
mara pachad tu avigayo

hey i didnt started convo with u, u did

you said i could be your hair dresser!
so you did! ha!

i didnt ask u to open ur mouth

hmmmm

how r u ads?

i dint open my mouth!
tum kya moo khol ke type karte ho? teehee

alright than why did u answer me

because u talked to me first...
and i dint want you to feel like we dun like you, just cuz u're a loozer...
u kno..u gotta be extra nice to ppl like you :D

not exactly, u were the first one when i came in these forum there was noone than as u saw that i am posting u came in

cuz i already posted everywhere else!
wut now--u want me to reply to sultan's topics??!
u came here--cuz i was here..
lalala..lol..
dun wanna hear it--
hey--this is like "koi mil gaya"
where she feels sorri for him--n then he gets all excited..haha!

huh? Koi Mil Gaya??? dehkh tu phir agayi, mera pyar tereko bullakar laya

nahi nahi nahi!
im relating the stury--duffer!
lol..u're yuvkier than JAADOO! :p

ok????

jaado...lolz...


ajj anuj ka bhootni se hogaya milen
jadooo jadoo jadoo jadoo..la la la..lolz :D

:d

how r u ads?

hey anuj im fine u?

i am good, so how is life?

good and bad lol

iwantoseeuonly weee i luv the song
though i dun get most of the song

cool

good and bad thats preety cool yes it is

:sarcastic....


:54::54: la la la la la la la

ek dilruba hai haan ek dilruba hai
la la

la la la!

sherni yeh ankhen tumhari
kya gazab hai pyari pyari
makhmali yeh roop tumhara
aasiqui banjaye humari
pata pati dali dali
sab karen yeh sawaal
bekhabar is dhadkahon ka
poocha tu haal
is kaal kaal mein hum tum kare dhamaal!

tania u dont copy ma la la la's


MERE DUNIA UJAD KAR
APNI DUNIYA BASAYEGA
YEH SHAM JUB BHI AAYEGE
MUJHKO YAAD PAYEGA..

aww nice

wassup in here guys ?

nothing u say maddy

hmmmmmmmmm

so wot is bad?

ehehe read the topic amollll:p

yh i dont think i can say anythin abt this topic sorry raj but erally i cant

i donno wot to say i neva thought these things b4

hey addu nothin everythink is juss kewl
tum bolo

oh its okay mudassar
nothing to feel bad about

aww
hey maddy nothin much lol day off today

okie addu

nah raj cause i donno wot to say
cause i can;t juss say anythin to anyone like that
n this is the fact n somethin true abt ur life
so i cant juss get on wit somethin of my own

so thats y i was really shut to say anythin
anyways its ok

wat we talking abt :confused:


weee i m alone in house...and its scary.....:o

chalta hai yaar apan dost hai

aww

yh okie raj bhai :D

:)

;)

oye ladki aankh kyun maring?

Arre line maring--;)....

ohhh
mere pe line mar rahi
kya zamana aa gaya
ladkiya aage bad gayi

heheeheheheheheheh awwwww
bachke rahena raj heheheh

arre agar mein itezaar kar rahi...for him to make a move
tub tak mere train choot jaati....so mein aage bad ke....line mari ;)

are train to train hai
ek gayi to dusri aa jaati hai

hehehehehehehehehe

lolz haan sahi baat hai :D

are train to train hai
ek gayi to dusri aa jaati hai


haan...lekin first class wali ek baar aati hain ;)..baar baar nahi...

train hai to aani hi hai
bina passenger kahan jayengi

Janum..mein..lolz....omg,.,.how long are indian trains man....freking hell...:eek:

unlike aussie trains..they are nthing....

well trains are long but not ppl
they r not like train they wait for someone to come wit them :p

hehehe

train mein to first class hoti hi hain..har ek train mein

haan aur uske baad me video coach hota hai :p
now dont ask me wots video coach main phele hi boldeta hoon
jisme ladies travel karti hai has a windo like thing n between First class n ladies first class
haha thats called as video coach in Mum

in MUm:eek:

oohhh MUMBAI....:o

hehe khush :p

lol.z...:o

awww :p

:sarcastic..:D

haan enuff emoticon spammin post :p

Dahhhh....go home :sarcastic

lolz okie but i m already at my home so shud i go out somewhere

nah stay home..:D

okie

yeah

yh yh

?????????

bhai mujhe bhi nahi malum kya chalu hai :p

um hmmm

ummm addu wassup

nthin much just the ceiling:p

yh yh juss ceilin :p

andhere gali mein bhatke hue musafir

musafir hoon raj bhai
naa ghar hai na thee kana:p

hmmmmmmmmm what is going on, i am soo confused

yh same.................are re re yeh kya hua.................main ke naa jana lala

aur pata nahi kaha jana hai rt? :p

hehehehhee

awww

lolz yh pata nahi kahan jana hai :p

But raj bhai
"gr8 men tell you how to get where you're goin but gr8er men take u there"

so raj bhai be gr8 aur rasta bata do :p

building ke niche :p

heheh kya be jahan se rasta bataya wahi wapas lake chood diya :D

heeheheheheheheheh u two

lol

hiya simo

are yahi to indian style hai
gol ghoomake wapis wahi laneka :p

heh nice style

yesh very nice style :);)

heehe hey simo

yh lolz

:5: wats happening in here

yup simo surely is

yeha

:p

why u showing toungue?

she wants a kiss i guess :D

lolz isha wot u sayin always....khush is tryin to get lucky everytime
i think isha u r tryin to make her lucky everytime lolz

isha

ohh u guess too much

heeheheh

haha

Simoooo

la lal

addu and raja! hiya! :)

simo!!! how r ya

oi khatti nimbo .....kima ho

heehe aww noo yaar shes sweet nimbo!

awwwwwwww yesh isha i am sweet, not like you! hehe jokes jokes

aww simo hehe true true

aww

hehe!! :) how sweeeeetttt, no one is sweeter thank addu and raj! ;)

awww simoo! :p

no ur the only one sweetest simo

awww

aw aww awww

:p chup copy cat

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww
poor raj!

heeheheh

copy cat nahi im making fun of ur aws

i know i know

hehe awwwwwwwwwwwwwww that is cute!
no one make fun of my aw okie raj! hehe ;)

nods*

hehehe geez raj

heeheh good boy

find sum1 else, i wud explain but itd go on, so seriously move on

A relationship isn't always about getting your own points across. It's about compromise and what's good for the relationship as a team. You have to be able to choose between issues that are critical and the ones that are okay to let slide. You have to ask yourself before you react whether or not nitpicking this particular individual issue or event will actually strengthen your relationship with your partner. Communication delivered properly will ALWAYS result in a raise in affection within your relationship. So, it would be wise to really think about what you are saying when you want to get your point across. Learn to say things in a way that helps raise your relationship level.

^ woh nice...........did u write dat or copied from sumwhere

its very nice n true

yh i no

i copied from u

aww really :p

yh he did from isha da genius

hehe!! nice

awww yup ishi
oo oo ishi wats 7.8889 x 8999 = ? :D *do it without the calculator muahhhhaahhha*

70992.2111,guess

ask her 1 + 1
lol

heheeh where is ishi

*waiting for isha*

shes probably busy counting

maybe lol

uff guyz............

RAJ : 1 + 1 = 2

ADI : = 70992.2111

c guyz im a genius............

:35: Bravo! New genius in town.... :p

1 + 1 can equal a window too..... :D (primary school joke....but it's possible..... when drawn on paper)

oye told u not to use the cal . :p

wha wha isha
i knw ur

lol

...well well...............raj finally admits dat im a genius

acha

i was speaking abt u.. being a tubelight haha

me?......................how am i a tube lite?

aree ishi....he was refering that to himself :p

...well well...............raj finally admits dat im a genius


Baby Pls be careful when ya use such words like 'genius'!!
Even having lots of degrees does not guarantee that the person is genius and when watching ya i can say ya have just come out of a shell and have no idea of the deepness of the world!!(So may be ya can choose a proper word for yourself then!):D

^ ishh ..............yaar.......

um heman she was just kidding :p

ish isha ish

sigh my mausis dotty name is isha

uffffff