Sex beofre Marriage

Is it worth saving yourself for your wife/husband?
Wrong or Right?


the title is pretty clear on what this topic is about

i say once u have found hot person ur looking for, just jump on him/her.






















nono, thats not right lol

yeah i think sex should only be saved for after marriage. sex should always be with the right person, and the right person is a person who u marry.

omg i thought u were serious hahah I was like wtf lol



and yea i agree with ur 2nd part :D

lol yyeah, the second part is much better

damnnn akkki i would have killed u dis second if i didnt read da second part looool

hehehehehe...lol i din read the 2nd part so im jumping on him..:9:

ewwwwwwwwww hahhahahahahha

hahahha, ur gonna jump on me wasama?

EWWWWWWWWWWW
HES A GUYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYYY
quit it both of u looool

hahhahaha, i didnt say anything yaar, i was just askin why is wasama gonna jump on me when hes a guy lol

Akki there is a spelling mistake abt wasam.....A small spelling mistake between G & Y....ha ha ha....

now did u get why he want to jump on u ha ha ha


Just kidding ok wasam:D

Ha ha ha sid if wasam come to know abt this dialogue he will jump on u like hell

Oh god...i can not eben imaging his jumping on u...

hehehehehe...lol i din read the 2nd part so im jumping on him..:9:
Haha LOL! Wasama! i thot you were straight ji..lol:9:

ll u all r such gay minded...i was standing behind him for sphere and to kick his ass buh now I read the 2nd part and ayt he is safe...lol u all have only one image in mind when u think bout somthing...:9:

Haha LOL! Wasama! i thot you were straight ji..lol:9:
wah u even malak i will start calling name..u got it name..:9:but i know u r not straight

Ashna i din expect that i thot u were smart..:9:

wow :eek: H factor Action....i kne i was right shite..:9:

Lol i will change ur bachpan ki habit into shabit..(Was tht a word)..:9:

Off Topic But...
People stop calling Wasama Wasam...That's only my nic name...:mad:
:D

:8:

Haan ji :8:
=)

Heyheyhey, Theres No H Factor, Just A Misunderstanding

Ewwwwwwww Guys Just Quit It Will Ya!!!

um okie...i dont understand y its OKIE for guys to have sex before marriage and for girls its always after marriage??guys can sleep with 5-6 chicks in like a week and girls only with one...lol...god....i agree with after marriage coz then u r truly that persons and u dont feel used.....but how can u possibly know that the man u r with hasnt slept with anyone else before marriage???? sucks....anyway i didnt make any sense lol...byee

Yh i agree to that...Buh If the guy had sex with many girls but is ready to change or has changed than he should get a chance and t goes same for the girls....

wat if he's not ...then????

every one has their right to live by their own wish...if one can not live good as ,he is advising to some one...he has no right to advise...

yup...there is nothing like guys can do any thing befor marriage and girls after that only....If guys starts using girls to satisfy their sexual feelings before marriage with out any limitation..hw can he wish and expect a girl who is virgin...And to all guys who are telling this things are not telling this from their heart..They dont want girls to think or do like that(Sex after marriage) If girls start doing guys will not be happy ...ha ha..their right what they say so proudly "Guys can have sex before marriage" will not work heeee... If boys can girls also can....why cant they...they also have right to live happily and freely...

i think the whole idea of it is preety good, because its about control the lust element within you, the whole sex thing is to bring new life into the world etc, when you are a married couple, i dont wonna go into detail, but i think sex should be done after marraige because it cuts out lifes complications

peace'

i agree with adi
why is it like dat??

am not saying gals are like sleeping around and all dat lol am just saying how come guys are like dat???

Not all guys are like that...only some guys..Some of the character and behaviour a guys or girls have is due to the way the parents take care of them...

I Dont Think Marriage Is A Necessity..i Wouldnt Judge Ne1 Who Consumated Their Relationship And Wasnt Married As Long As Their Not Hoes

Marriage for everyone is compulsory..Its a part of life..

i dint mean that...i said that its ok if the couple isnt married but they had sex

shyt lyke that happenz

and no marriage isnt compulsory..id prefer it but hey everyones different

ayt ur opinion..im to mine..its alright..

yeahhh

Is that compulsary...?....

Wat compulsory???

uhh, id have to say sex after maririage, maybe becuase i am a sorta traditonal indian on the subject. and a very wise man said "Whoever looks upon a woman with lustful desires has already committed adultery with her in his heart."The Wise man who said that was Jesus Christ.

today its revealed wasama is gandu lol with hammad.. both jumping on each other chee chee while listening to jump jump hug in the air looool

wtf ranjah..sultan lover...listening to im a barbie boy in my sultans world lol

uhh, id have to say sex after maririage, maybe becuase i am a sorta traditonal indian on the subject. and a very wise man said "Whoever looks upon a woman with lustful desires has already committed adultery with her in his heart."The Wise man who said that was Jesus Christ.

:) sex aftre marriage for def

n u boys concentrate on topic :p

hmm this topic sucks..no reason only conclusion sex after marriage :)

It is definately a big problem in these days. But what ca we do? It is not possible to stop them as long as they themselves dont control themselves

wow this topic is real traditional

True. society is changing rapidly. The belief of it is fading away.

I still believe in it though. Also those who are religious also believe in it.

U can have sex before marriage only if u are in a serious relationship and u think u r going to be his/her life partner. But its just mad stupid to have sex at the age of 17-20 because u know that u r in no position to marry someone. And also u have to worry about pregnancy and stds

i think its better 2 save ur self till ur married. if u have sex before married than u really didnt wait 4 that special guy/girl.

ur seein sum1, goin out with em. dnt kno if he/she gna b ur partner! u jus dnt do it! after marriage defo^ otherwize its nt that moment, wen ur theirz!

Hi
How can one person know if that is the right person.. Sometimes you feel the right one is when u marry but after what if he turns out to be the WRONG one... Still willing to take the risk??? I cannot say anything as for I have not had the pleasure of being in LOVE as yet nor am I in a relationship... And ppl say sex before marriage is WRONG.. Now how can one be sure about that as well..... I guess one can never say or tell....

Temptation Guys Temptation!!!

That what it all is...people in relationship...can't control themselves...but if they know they can be together forever then they can wait...

Hi
How can one person know if that is the right person.. Sometimes you feel the right one is when u marry but after what if he turns out to be the WRONG one... Still willing to take the risk??? I cannot say anything as for I have not had the pleasure of being in LOVE as yet nor am I in a relationship... And ppl say sex before marriage is WRONG.. Now how can one be sure about that as well..... I guess one can never say or tell....
I definately Agree with you there...how can a person be so sure the person they marry is not the wrong person...i mean marraige is a risk one willing takes, but sometimes it could end up in a disaster. What then, a person not stay in a marraige if they figure out their partner is not the person they known and lost their virginity to. I say if anyone found out that special someone and they think it's the right time to them to bang each GO FOR IT. lolzzzzzzzzz

my first post in this topic hmm....so where shud i start frm......

hmm....point to think...loOol actually nothin to think jisko jo karna hai karenga na.....kutte ki dum kitna bhi pipe me daloo seedhi nahi hongii..
If a guy whos kinnda flirt will be a flirt whole his life untill he gets one nice wife to straighten his tail...

n abt gal....hmm......cant say anythin yaar Tragedy is cant understand chicks
hosakta hai some gals are really very very reserved abt their relationship with their BF or BF's well but some are xactly opopsite to thiss...haha hope u guyz understood u dont want me to discribe some really S***ish chicks

for me.....Sex is fun after marriage...cause it will be new n only wit one gal....so a nice start of long term realtion called as marriage...
Muhuhahuahahhahaa.....M waiting lool:p;)
thats it

Muhuhahuahahhahaa.....M waiting lool


^^hahah

interesting madddyy...

my first post in this topic hmm....so where shud i start frm......

hmm....point to think...loOol actually nothin to think jisko jo karna hai karenga na.....kutte ki dum kitna bhi pipe me daloo seedhi nahi hongii..
If a guy whos kinnda flirt will be a flirt whole his life untill he gets one nice wife to straighten his tail...

n abt gal....hmm......cant say anythin yaar Tragedy is cant understand chicks
hosakta hai some gals are really very very reserved abt their relationship with their BF or BF's well but some are xactly opopsite to thiss...haha hope u guyz understood u dont want me to discribe some really S***ish chicks

for me.....Sex is fun after marriage...cause it will be new n only wit one gal....so a nice start of long term realtion called as marriage...
Muhuhahuahahhahaa.....M waiting lool:p;)
thats it

...*comment*... umm i think i will tell u :D

yh rubz:p haha

wot khush?? tell me wot?

lool..
just want to burst out laffin readin ur post haha

Hahah saying then u only have one flavour looool :p


ok ok kidddding people...ok

one flavour.... :S

wat if u don't wann2 get married

enjoy before shadhi.. wid differend kind of menu's lol after shadhi no menu. just one type dish loool :D

enjoy before shadhi.. wid differend kind of menu's lol after shadhi no menu. just one type dish loool :D

but marriage only ties ppl down!....wats wid talkin bout mean's it doesn't make sences

thats true .. it ties people down. but thats the way it is :D

by the wya cool katz. never seen you people, wehre are u from a/s/l???

thats true .. it ties people down. but thats the way it is :D

by the wya cool katz. never seen you people, wehre are u from a/s/l???

wat do u mean "never seen you people"

lol i mean i neva seen you before post here much.. so i was wondering. app khi a/s/l/... koi antrazz ..

lol i mean i neva seen you before post here much.. so i was wondering. app khi a/s/l/... koi antrazz ..

rite... jst new member but the coolest

u wish boo :p

u wish boo :p

u don't know me dats y :p

dont wanna know you :p

dont wanna know you :p

only coz i'm 2 cool for u !!......lol

:o

only coz i'm 2 uncool for u !!......lol

:o


i know you are :D. thanx for tellin us

i know you are :D. thanx for tellin us

not rubin it in or anyfing but the truth iz de truth ..lol

enjoy before shadhi.. wid differend kind of menu's lol after shadhi no menu. just one type dish loool :D

haha good one...

haha good one...

i don't get it y do ppl get married

if you dont know.. call a lifeline they may help you maybe :p

yeah they helped ranju many times

my lifeline call goes to brissy lol :D

ohhh reallly.... wooow.... true haye... it was on the national news..
wen u lost ur ahem.... and then u were crying soooo bad.... that all the lifelines in the auz had to help u

haha.. also they asked the public to help.. and u were one of em :D

welll i cared for my friend ... soooo yeah i helped u to get over ur.. loss of V lol

loss of V.. plz explain? lol

ewwww no way loool

why is it something bad.. u meanini thing..

hahahah... no its something nice..not lool

im not mean lol

I beg to differ... you are mean :D

:sarcastic.... loool :D

you can never predict what will happen in the future, sometimes under certain conditions anything can happen bfore marriage.

^^Kinda true you know...
But stuff like sex... you gotto be willin to decide weather u rather after marriage or before marriage...
coz its upto da individual as well.. if both gna decide okay before marriage.. then its dat.. but both can decide no after marriage...

^ i tottalli agree... if a couple datt r in love wana do it.. go 4 it
buh i still fink datt doin it on da 1st nite or ur marriage is uh special n cute

NO :D

no guy likes a girl whos unexperienced???
ok suppose u hadn known da girl b4 marriage.. ur stateing she should have sex b4 handd and den b experienced in bed wid u .. mm???

btw stop freakin me out.. i'll b fine na lol trust me
godddd sum1 slapp himm 4 makin such a statementt.. ntt all girls r as open as u want em 2 b :mad:
n den again.. even if dey mess up on dere 1st nite.. dey cn improve it afterwards.. no need 4 a 'practise'

wateva u do is suppose 2 b special cuz its NEW na...doin it b4 wud make ur weddin nite juz like any oda nite.. plus deres no such fing as perfect sex :mad:

well in MY opinion.. i choose 2 wait nw lol...

trustt me.. i wont regret a fing.. jus fink bout itt.. whn ur unexperienced ova sumfin.. u don have much expectations as 2 hw it'll turn out.. soo wateva da result is.. u'll b satisfied and happi rite.. well datz hw i prefer it...
btw.. y will i rmr u on my 1st nite :p

lol @ fake promises.. ok honestliii sum1 plzzz slap him b4 i do :(

itz so wah i want.. n ur gona help me stick 2 it
da fact dat u and girl have been together 4 soooo long is wah makez it xtra special on ur 1st WEDDIN nite .. derez dat xtra xcitementt 2 itt.. uff try 2 understand wah m sayin here :mad:

lol cute.. buh hw do u know ur girl feelz da same way.. n pluss i tlkin in generalll
u choose nt 2 understand me :mad: no wonder we're alwayzz fightinn

soo nt tru..
any1 who reads da postz cn clearly state dat u alwayz start sumfin n i try 2 make peace :(

save urself...or else you'll get pregnat and wont know who the daddy is!

i guess its a individual choice.. its you to decide..whats good for you..and what not.. just dun end up crying abt it...

depends on priority and preference....
not scary at all as long as u r sure tht u wont regret it soon....

that's true

good point

I don't believe in casual sex and i believe in marriage.
and if some is planning to get married
they shuld save it for after marriage.
its a different thing if u don't intend to marry however...

i was readin aryan and so fly post..
and guys thanks alot i fell of my chair laughing!
okay it was interesting.. made me laugh.. made me think... half da time u guys arguing was funny n cute!!

am gna stick to after marriage!!

lol thnks rubz.. buhh after dat statement m assuming u agree wid ME rite :D

omgg ur soo.. impossible .. i do not argue unless YOU start it.. its a given fact.. an eddiott wud notice it lol lol

oiii watch it.. don say a word about em.. btw which 2?
u edited it.. so i had 2 start it.. bin da ____ it kinda hurt cin u edit it...

nooo uffff.. damn na :mad:
ok fine i started it.. ONLI cuz u edited it.. no edit = no fite .. get itt
so technicalli i win.. lol @ tough.. id like 2 c u try

i agree with ryaann if it feels ryte then take the first leap |o|z has tah happen one day myte as well sleep with yer bf if the feelings are deep & after marriag least yoohl be aware what tah expect

hahah aryaan like i mentioned above i still agree with after marriage... so i agree with so fly.. and da arguments are soo funny i dont knw who to blame.. but it sounds like aryaan doesnt like da complanining n moaning.. NEVER EVER MEET ME!!

If you think so fly makes u lose ur mind... its nothing compared to what i do...

lol so flyy dats interesting init? making ppl lose their minds?

i call it a HOBBY NOW!!!

rubz u rock!!!
aryy if u read her post.. i got 1 thing2 say.. HA!! i winn loll
lol @ complain and moan.. mm no comments
buhh yeaa rubz ur rite.. it is fun
esp whn my target is ary :D

:( m nt feeling good.. aryaannnnnn ur still gona b mean 2 me .. after yeh sab dats happening :: lookz xtremelyyy sad::

p.s no matter wah u say.. rubz is on my side :mad:

i need to go carpet shopping now..
ill be back and let u all knw how sumthing changed ma mind...
ill be back inabit

my view is dat it shd happen afta marriage!!

aryaan and so.fly's fighting cracks me up!

its funneh goo aryannn

aryan i give up with u!!

honestly... am waiting till the day they announce their wedding..
i want invite !!

wait is worth

^^^^LOL
haha educational!!

it was a nicee argumenttt

btwww i tink am allowed it sayy 2 *QT* soo yeahhh aryaan pm-d me saying i shud be on his sideee

hes a BLACKMAILERR HAHA

aryaaan its been months am allowed 2 sayy now soo dontt jump down ma throatt!!

It was very educational....:rolleyes:

hmmmmmm

not really.. i didnt learn anything in this topic haha

all i learnt it there are some dirtyyy minded people!!!

Lolz...I didn't even read this topic......

well put it like this.. i must have like read most da topics on bwh from page one lol!!

same here

hehe awww

I don't...

u shud...
its gna make u laugh....

I personally feel there is nothing wrong in sex before marriage...its an individual's choice...I mean sex is a part of life so why should before and after matter so much...
I mean in today's day and age if my would be wife told me she was waiting for after marriage I would seriously be worried.

Why would you be worried...?...I'd rather have that so that I know she's not been already used up by another guy......

Coz i have no problems if she had sex with someone else...its her choice at the end of the day...i would be shocked though cause im very open minded about these things...and in todays day and age its weird to find someone who hasnt been involved with someone.

^^ ur right at some extent

but i still stick to after marriage...

no one getting THAT closeee!!

but watevzzz he better be cleann 2!!

save everytin 4da future
be pure untouched
fink of ur future husband
dnt lose respect coz in our books its a BIG sin END OF!!!!!

it would reallyyyy bother me if ma husband was NOT clean.. i tink datss wat am gna first find out before i choose to marry lool!! :p butt whatevzzzz he betterrrr be cleaannn i dontt caree or else am not marrrryinggggg u!!!!!!!

nahh its not weirddd ishan... cozzz there's plentyyyyy of ppl who still wanna save it for after marriage... soo yeh... but some ppl it doesnt bother.. some ppl it does.. bothers me forrr suree

If you are prepared to sleep with a girl: the most intimate physcial thing that one human being can do with one another, but would not grant that woman the dignity and respect of committing yourself to her (i.e marriage), then there is something seriously wrong there. That must surely be a clear indicator to any girl that she is being used, and will more than likely later be dumped for someone else.

To me there is nothing worse than meeting girls who are so emotionally cold because they have been mistreated by a man who was only out to use them for sex. Thats a really terrible thing. Infidelity breeds mistrust, which in turn breeds anger and resentment. And that is what is happening everywhere now. Because people cannot take responsibility for their own actions. They like to term it 'freedom' but really it is a cop-out.

This is why marriage has been created. It is the backbone of society, and without it, and the aforementioned honour and dignity that it brings when you do it right, we are merely a bunch of lustful creatures roaming from one meaningless sexual encounter to another, all the time getting older and more cynical.

The conclusion: if you believe in marriage at all, it only follows that you would wait until you are married before you allow another human being that physically close to you. Dont listen to what the rest of society says about people who keep their innocence - because most of society has taken the easy option and as a consequence become totally wasted by their reckless behaviour. There is nothing those kinds of people hate more than someone who is pure, because it only draws attention to how dirty they have actually become.

If you are prepared to sleep with a girl: the most intimate physcial thing that one human being can do with one another, but would not grant that woman the dignity and respect of committing yourself to her (i.e marriage), then there is something seriously wrong there. That must surely be a clear indicator to any girl that she is being used, and will more than likely later be dumped for someone else.

To me there is nothing worse than meeting girls who are so emotionally cold because they have been mistreated by a man who was only out to use them for sex. Thats a really terrible thing. Infidelity breeds mistrust, which in turn breeds anger and resentment. And that is what is happening everywhere now. Because people cannot take responsibility for their own actions. They like to term it 'freedom' but really it is a cop-out.

This is why marriage has been created. It is the backbone of society, and without it, and the aforementioned honour and dignity that it brings when you do it right, we are merely a bunch of lustful creatures roaming from one meaningless sexual encounter to another, all the time getting older and more cynical.

The conclusion: if you believe in marriage at all, it only follows that you would wait until you are married before you allow another human being that physically close to you. Dont listen to what the rest of society says about people who keep their innocence - because most of society has taken the easy option and as a consequence become totally wasted by their reckless behaviour. There is nothing those kinds of people hate more than someone who is pure, because it only draws attention to how dirty they have actually become.

wowww that madeee soo much sense...

readdd diss guysss

loool all guys means all guys.. ma mate sista just told me.. all guys thinks about sex every 17.5 secs!!!!!

i wishh someone would tell me that's not true... i dont tink i wantt too talk to Nathan ever agennn for more than 17.5secs if datsss trueeee

am suree it aintt.. she saidd she read it in a book.. am suree sheee sed 17.5 lool

Haha ! Well look at it this way...if a guy is not interested in you for sex, who is he interested in???

Must be somebody else.....

Only one thing worse for a woman than a guy who always wants to have sex with her, and that is a guy who never wants to have sex with her..

Think about it .............!!

oh my god... and i thot u was making sense in all these lengthyy posts??

dont even get me started now!!!

am not suree any girl.. well beside a prositutee wouldd be reallyyy into dat.. unlesss shes not married..

for some reason i can never ever believe that any girl would want to lose it before marriage...
i dont tink ive come across any.. so am saying...

n is that all guys think about? sex? isnt there more to life than sex?
honestly.. i hate every single men in dis planett.. soo yeahh dont get me started on this guys stuff...

i feel like ive been into a guys mind.. and seen all da crap inside out... soo it makes me tink oh godd if ur all like that.. they world will soo be messed up sooon!!

guys give me a break...i was just voicing my opinion, there are lots of girls who would have sex before marriage if they are attracted to someone...and i dont see any harm in that...like i dont see any harm in a guy having sex before marriage either...its called attraction...and there is nothing wrong in being attracted to someone and having physical needs.

hey hey ishan... its all coool...

everyone has own opinion.. soo yeah i do 2..
soo look at da stuff am saying..

its kinda against guys.. but yeh.. not veryy nice.. but dats ma opinion...

But you take my point though Ishan, right?

We all know it happens, but this is just a discussion about what the philosophy behind it. If you truly love someone, then naturally you would want to marry them, and it only makes sense really to wait until you're married before you sleep with them. Its a question of placing your faith and trust in that person. A marriage has to start out on the right foot, otherwise its likely to go wrong later on.

We all have attraction to girls, but its what you do with that attraction that really separates those who respect their lives and those who are are prepared to compromise themself and the girl they are 'attracted' to.

Even if we had the option to sleep with every girl we were attracted to, we know deep down that ultimately it would ruin us. We would become so obsessed with girls for sex, that love would no longer mean anything to us. Once you have had sex with one girl, is it not all basically the same with all the others? Thats not the way.

Better to find one girl who you respect and admire and love her with everything you are, than sleeping with ten thousand pretty girls. Lust is soul destroying and I have seen so many guys messed up by chasing it.

No matter how it might appear in the media or wherever, girls really dont respect men that cheat and have multiple girlfriends. Do the woman you love the honour of marrying her and building a stable life with her.

I totally agree with you...but I hope you know where I am coming from

Yh i agree to that...Buh If the guy had sex with many girls but is ready to change or has changed than he should get a chance and t goes same for the girls....
This is all about the good old days.Now a days many or most girls especially pretty and smart ones looks for a virgin boy--Man

I was reading this topic from page one.. Some interesting and funny stuff lol.

I dont want to comment about some stuff.. But from what I heard from guys themselves.. Its just "desperate" I played truth and dare with 3 pakistani girls.. All 3 admitted they wouldnt aint interested in girls beside sex.. Afta that its like you can eff off.. That was just plain sick!!

The other day this guy goes me .. Ruby I hate being a guy at times.. I hate that fact that girls see me as one who would just want to sleep with someone and they say eff off.. I didnt say anything.. But hes like trying to convince me am not that type guy... Your a good mate.. Am being honest n open to you.. I didnt knw what to say.. It was funny though.. He b***ched about all the guys it was funny though..