do you know anyone who has commited such act?
we want to hear what you have to say.
miss_teryus
13-01-2006, 09:48 PM
sum ppl that i know threaten to do it all the time..for attention
it's just for attention they say "no, you dont understand...i'd rather die than live this life"
but deep down, it's for attention..it's more like "i told you so...now look!"
pretty sad...
but it's not people's fault..
they need help. society is gettin bitchier :p
Cutiepie Rani
13-01-2006, 10:13 PM
^^it isnt all the time for attention.
Rubz
15-01-2006, 11:43 AM
well it depends on da person
yeah what bhoot said it right people do it for attention as well
miss_teryus
15-01-2006, 01:25 PM
^^it isnt all the time for attention.
it is. deep down, it is.
MalaK
15-01-2006, 01:56 PM
With some ppl It isnt for attention at all.What do you need attention for when yer dead? Some ppl really feel like commiting suicide and they also do it and to say its for attention is low cause you dont know how that person feels.If a person decides to commit suicide na and starts planning how to do it but he/she doesnt tell any1 abt it and one day he/she is dead,then how can you say it is to get attention?
If some1 tells you he's gonna commit suicide then you already know he's isnt gonna do it for real that way it is to get attention but its not alwayz the same.
sharara
16-01-2006, 01:00 PM
i agree with u raela...
Rubz
21-01-2006, 01:05 PM
wow leile sed it spot on hehe
since when were u talking so mature?
i swear i dont know dis new leile
do you know anyone who has commited such act?
we want to hear what you have to say.
my thoughts on suicide is leave when u will die up to God, not urself. but then again, ppl how are thinking of suicide must have something really horrible happening in their life hence they dnt depend on God to make everything better.
my history teacher once tld me this story, i dnt knw this guy personally, but my teacher knew him. when my teacher used to live in the northern side in a small town, the teacher was friends with this person. this friend's life was not going too well, and therefore he decided to commit suicide. so he sat himself down on the chair, got a gun, pointed just below his chin, and fired. the bullet just went through his mouth, up the nose are, and exited from the forehead area. the guy fell unconscious for a couple of hours, and woke back up. all around him he saw blood. he was really mad that he did not die, and decided to lay himself upside down in the washing machine, so all the blook would come outthroough the hole from his forehead. but after a while he realized it wasnt wrking. so after that, he tried various things to kill himself, but none of them worked, i cant remember what they were. but then fell unconscious again because of all the blood he was loosing. one of his friends then started knocking on the door, and no one was answering. so he looked thorugh the window, and saw blood everywhere, and called the cops. the cops came, broke into the house, and took him to the hospital. and the guy survived in the end.
poor guy, after all he did and all the blood lost, he still survived.
lol, Bhoot not ppl do it to get attention, some are actually fed up with their lives.
miss_teryus
28-01-2006, 02:20 PM
whoa yaar..that sounds painful! bechara....
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lol, Bhoot not all ppl do it to get attention, some are actually fed up with their lives.
but there is help available...
but i guess....there sumtimes comes a point at which you juss give up, huh...
i dunno....
i just dont think anybody has the right to do that...
or even to let anyone else do that, knowing wut theyre going thru...
ohhh no..this is making me sad!!
*bhoot starts pondering*
Rubz
30-01-2006, 12:37 PM
ewwwwwwwwwww horirble loool
Ackie
03-02-2006, 02:51 PM
lool? its horrible but u find it funny?
suicide is a big issue on my life as i have tried to commint it once seriosuly .. summat happened an i wasn't thinkin straight at all .. i was gonna do summat .. didn't even have it planned but in the end summat ended up gettin in the way so i didn't .. i then realised that i was stupid
i talked to meh best mate about it a few nights after an i told her .. donno y .. it didn't do any good should have just kept meh mouth shut
but now? i regret not doin it .. i dont think i will think about it .. well i will think about it but i will think about other things before i start to act on anything
i think some people r stupid .. my best mate used to self harm an i know for a FACT that most of the tymes it was for attention .. an she will carrying denyin it i kno that but as long as i know .. we almost broke up once an the way we got bak together was when she said that "do u care if i self harm" meanin if u dont b my mate im gonna self harm .. i cannot believe i fukin feel for emotional blakmail .. if i had the chance now i'd take it bak
suicide is a great feelin reallie if u do feel suicidal as it gives u an option outta stuff which is great but also kinda stupid ... all im gonna say is that i'd rather die than have the "mates" ive got around meh. Honestly none of u have any idea wat its lyke livin with my so called "mates"
lilprincess_985
04-02-2006, 02:22 PM
my friend tol me about this gurl from his skool. she had a boyfriend that she loved wit all her heart. it was her first relationship so she didn't know much about havin a boyfriend well 4 months into the relationship her bf started pressurin her for sex and she said not be4 marriage. then he started saying things like u don't love me if u do then prove it. then one day the argument got so bad the gurl hung up and carved i love you on her are with a knife. after seekin this the guy didn't know wat to do. so he decided to trick her by proposing to her. when she said yes he tired convincing her agian. after a couple of days she agreed. right be4 there 7 month anni her parents found out. they pulled her out of skool. she convinced her parents into meeting with the guys family. when the girls family arrived the boy denied everythin and said tht she was lying. the boy's side humiliated the girls side and threatened to call the cops if they even tried to talk to the boy or the family again. when the girl got home she overdosed on pills. when her father when to check up on the gurl he found her past out on her bedroom floor.they took her to the hospital the doctors said she had taken a lethal dose and it would be hard to save her. even if they did save her there might be permenet damage. they saved her but she was in and out of conciousness for the next to days. the next day the boys family called the girls house saying that the boy had confessed. but when they found out what the gurl had done they refused to even talk to the gurls parents and the girl. till this day the girl has problems with her blood liver and kidneys. she and her ex go to the same skool. and he has a new girlfriend now. while she is in the hospital every other weekend for check-ups.
miss_teryus
04-02-2006, 02:45 PM
that guy--ughhhh! WHAT A ----. it's amazing how shallow and inconciderate sum ppl are. he ruined the girl's life. i mean, that's permenant.
that's why ppl shouldnt get into relationships so early. as a teen, u tend to not think rite sumtimes..and the decisions u make can cost you, big time..
tfs..
lilprincess_985
04-02-2006, 02:58 PM
i guess ur right but they both knew wat they were gettin into so i say it's both thier fault but i think that the guy made a bigger mastake then the girl. i mean when a person falls in love with you and tells you that. That one person is giving you the power to completely destroy them. And they are trusting you not to do that exact thing. you should be very careful with the way you handle that kind of situation. some ppl don't care and only do whats best for them. And when they can reallyt hurt a person without meaning to.
gujigirl786
28-02-2006, 12:29 PM
well as its against my religion, i am against suicide but also i think its morally wrong, i mean no matter how bad things may seem im sure there are ppl in situations that are alot worse n also no matter how bad the situation may seem or is, theres always a way out. u gotta have faith in urself as well ur faith, friends and family :)
miss_teryus
28-02-2006, 03:26 PM
i guess ur right but they both knew wat they were gettin into so i say it's both thier fault but i think that the guy made a bigger mastake then the girl. i mean when a person falls in love with you and tells you that. That one person is giving you the power to completely destroy them. And they are trusting you not to do that exact thing. you should be very careful with the way you handle that kind of situation. some ppl don't care and only do whats best for them. And when they can reallyt hurt a person without meaning to.
never trust someone so much that they can screw you over so bad. (not literally...) lol..sry..bad joke...
but at times, i understand that it's inevitable...to trust someone and then be decived..it happens all de time..heckk...
arghhhhhh that guy is such a mofo!!!!!!!!!
miss_teryus
28-02-2006, 03:28 PM
well as its against my religion, i am against suicide but also i think its morally wrong, i mean no matter how bad things may seem im sure there are ppl in situations that are alot worse n also no matter how bad the situation may seem or is, theres always a way out. u gotta have faith in urself as well ur faith, friends and family :)
there are times, at which ppl seem to find no other way out. that's when religion kicks in. (for someppl that is..) you live jussst for your religion. it kinda serves as a type of motivation, until things get back on track, and you find more reason to your life..
i think religion is a great thing. it's kinda like a guide, yh...
well, actually, it's way more than that...it's sab-kuch! :)
gujigirl786
28-02-2006, 03:38 PM
:d
ranjha83
01-03-2006, 12:45 AM
well sucide.. to hard to me to describe this topic!
Rubz
01-03-2006, 12:07 PM
go on flirt let see what u say??
ranjha83
01-03-2006, 10:21 PM
well from my philosophy suciding means where you get a rope and strangling urself for somereason coz u maybe can't sleep lol, i come back to it to finish it off, when my brain cells are awake!
**Cute**Jaan**
10-03-2006, 04:28 AM
u shuldnt suicide..........cuz i remember my last years religion teacher teaching me dat suicide is rong cuz ur challenging god.....like ur getting out of da mess in ur life
sumtimes i really wana kill my self...but i nva get da guts
ishhh those ppl dat do suicide are brave in one way and coward in other
cuz like problems dnt always stay forever
akki4life
10-03-2006, 02:39 PM
well from my philosophy suciding means where you get a rope and strangling urself for somereason coz u maybe can't sleep lol, i come back to it to finish it off, when my brain cells are awake!
i love this philosophy of urs, very interesting i must say. lol
miss_teryus
10-03-2006, 08:23 PM
too bad tho....sanju's brain cells never did wake up.....
well, we cant blame em...
if something doesnt even exist (i.e. sanju's brain cells) howww can they wake up??!! :D
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isha...com'ere u lil roach! ..suicide? pshh..dun even think bout it, moti...lol
your religion teacher is riite! no1's got that right...to control when dey die...
yes, u're rite...they are indeed brave...to challenge God like dat...
and...fer exerting pain on emselves...in order to kill emselves..
but its not neccessary..theres help available!
and pshh...like you said..problems go away...!
**Cute**Jaan**
10-03-2006, 11:45 PM
yh true yaar
i ended term one wif a religion test...but i know im gona do good...i love studying religion even though im not catholic....
miss_teryus
15-03-2006, 11:20 PM
my friend tol me about this gurl from his skool. she had a boyfriend that she loved wit all her heart. it was her first relationship so she didn't know much about havin a boyfriend well 4 months into the relationship her bf started pressurin her for sex and she said not be4 marriage. then he started saying things like u don't love me if u do then prove it. then one day the argument got so bad the gurl hung up and carved i love you on her are with a knife. after seekin this the guy didn't know wat to do. so he decided to trick her by proposing to her. when she said yes he tired convincing her agian. after a couple of days she agreed. right be4 there 7 month anni her parents found out. they pulled her out of skool. she convinced her parents into meeting with the guys family. when the girls family arrived the boy denied everythin and said tht she was lying. the boy's side humiliated the girls side and threatened to call the cops if they even tried to talk to the boy or the family again. when the girl got home she overdosed on pills. when her father when to check up on the gurl he found her past out on her bedroom floor.they took her to the hospital the doctors said she had taken a lethal dose and it would be hard to save her. even if they did save her there might be permenet damage. they saved her but she was in and out of conciousness for the next to days. the next day the boys family called the girls house saying that the boy had confessed. but when they found out what the gurl had done they refused to even talk to the gurls parents and the girl. till this day the girl has problems with her blood liver and kidneys. she and her ex go to the same skool. and he has a new girlfriend now. while she is in the hospital every other weekend for check-ups.
i have this forward about a smiliar same story..
but in the forward its a bit more graphic...so i will not post it here..
but yeah...it made me feel so weird wen i read it...like...eww...who would do that...wuttt a jerkkkk
ranjha83
15-04-2006, 07:26 PM
is the sucide topic still open, i still have to give my opinion apart from last time my cells were sleep didn't wanna distrub. now they fully awaken up for 5mins fully charged just like engizier battery ;)
should i start... ??/
miss_teryus
15-04-2006, 07:41 PM
yes sanju...please start..before those brain cells of yours go back to sleep..
suicide is a big issue on my life as i have tried to commint it once seriosuly .. summat happened an i wasn't thinkin straight at all .. i was gonna do summat .. didn't even have it planned but in the end summat ended up gettin in the way so i didn't .. i then realised that i was stupid
i talked to meh best mate about it a few nights after an i told her .. donno y .. it didn't do any good should have just kept meh mouth shut
but now? i regret not doin it .. i dont think i will think about it .. well i will think about it but i will think about other things before i start to act on anything
i think some people r stupid .. my best mate used to self harm an i know for a FACT that most of the tymes it was for attention .. an she will carrying denyin it i kno that but as long as i know .. we almost broke up once an the way we got bak together was when she said that "do u care if i self harm" meanin if u dont b my mate im gonna self harm .. i cannot believe i fukin feel for emotional blakmail .. if i had the chance now i'd take it bak
suicide is a great feelin reallie if u do feel suicidal as it gives u an option outta stuff which is great but also kinda stupid ... all im gonna say is that i'd rather die than have the "mates" ive got around meh. Honestly none of u have any idea wat its lyke livin with my so called "mates"
what i wrote on my last post
One of my mates caled me the other day an we were talkin on the phone for about 2 hours an then she broke down in tears .. she was hardly talkin out of the two hours an I asked her str8 out is anything wrong cuz she called an then she was hardly talking .. an when i asked her is anything wrong she broke down in tears an told me the only reason y she called me was because she wanted to kill her herself (hang herself in her bedroom) but she called me cause she knew I could talk her out of it .. an I did .. she called me purely because she wanted to do it but then again she didn't want too, Im just sooo glad that she actually called me or else I wouldn't b able to talk about her now .. just goes to show who ur real mates are
my best mate is a total B*tch .. she selfharmed like i said before for no reason for attention really donno y .. just goes to show how low people can stoop
miss_teryus
23-04-2006, 04:39 PM
yea, u know, one of my teachers' friends' gfs...she used to threaten her bf that she'd commit suicide if he ever broke up with her...
this was like 4 years ago..i dont know how it's going rite now..
i feel bad fer the guy....
it's not fair to him eh..
i guess evryone has their reasons...u cant judge ppl..and u cant accuse them of wanting attention...
but more often than not--it is for attention...
it's not right. if it was right, Islam would allow it.
The Creator
24-04-2006, 02:43 AM
if i was that guy u feel bad for ... would u feel bad for the girl! xD
-x-ßàßy_Gµ®£-x-
26-04-2006, 11:58 AM
well....um its is bad..ofcourse
but maybe ppl do it becoz of some reasons (duh)
like..bullying, rape shit, ect ect
yeh i do knw som1..
tht som1z me...ye iknow is soo fuking sick n tht
but i had my reasons for it,,like if i would tell it u ppl might thinks wtf,,tht aint a gd reason,,but for me it is/was,,
but now i do think abt it very differently,,and i also want2 help ppl with these kind of probz..n tht
now dun think yeh tht gurls not gd in her head or nyfink..
Rubz
29-04-2006, 03:10 PM
well as long as u dont do it anymore that good
sharara
08-05-2006, 06:23 AM
yea, u know, one of my teachers' friends' gfs...she used to threaten her bf that she'd commit suicide if he ever broke up with her...
this was like 4 years ago..i dont know how it's going rite now..
i feel bad fer the guy....
it's not fair to him eh..
i guess evryone has their reasons...u cant judge ppl..and u cant accuse them of wanting attention...
but more often than not--it is for attention...
it's not right. if it was right, Islam would allow it.
I remember you saying on page #1 that it was for attention lol so why now say you shouldnt accuse them of it? :P
And even if it was to get attention thn he/she is doing that cause he/she feels horrible and feels like thats the only way to make ppl notice him/her.So when that happens you already know there's somethin really wrong(going on ) with that person,thats already a sign to help and not wait till it's too late.
Nobody knows how others truelly feel :D
-x-ßàßy_Gµ®£-x-
18-05-2006, 01:02 PM
well as long as u dont do it anymore that good
yeh tru
miss_teryus
20-05-2006, 06:45 PM
I remember you saying on page #1 that it was for attention lol so why now say you shouldnt accuse them of it? :P
And even if it was to get attention thn he/she is doing that cause he/she feels horrible and feels like thats the only way to make ppl notice him/her.So when that happens you already know there's somethin really wrong(going on ) with that person,thats already a sign to help and not wait till it's too late.
Nobody knows how others truelly feel
i contradicted myself there, didnt i? lol...just pretend you didnt notice! :D
well okay...im just not phrasing it properly..im a bad phraser (lol! "phraser"?!)
to a degree, i understand what you mean, that wen somebody's life is so bad that they think bout doin something totally drastic like comittin suicide..they feel like tellin ppl "k...bas karo...i cant take it nemore"...
and that sounds to me like a plea for attention..
now the reasons why ppl want attention vary...and how badly they want attention also varies........depending on wuh they been thru...
the last line u said--i wholly agree with. ppl dont know what others are going through. just be nice to everybody and accept that your life isnt de very worst. ;)
i think everybody has been thru that "ohhh my life sucks" phase...well, not everybody..but it is a very common thing to go thru...i rekkon :D