azn_pryde
04-11-2005, 10:13 PM
If you found out what somebody who doesn't even KNOW you thinks about you? Do you think it makes a difference if their perception of you is positive or negative?
I have a friend who goes to another school, she knows a girl in a grade lower than me who goes to my school. So she asks me if I know that girl and I say nope. Then she tells me oh because she told me YEAH I know her, I love her! I was a bit taken aback http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif Like er, okay maybe if you've heard of me or something you may say oh yeah I know who she is but have never met her. But okay...it wasn't flattering it was just creepy. I still don't know who she is http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_eek.gif
THEN, today I was looking at a friend's myspace thingy. And where she has posted all her pictures, she has a pic of her and me from Kindergarten. She is looking at the camera and smiling, and I look kinda confused and suspicious or something and I'm like looking to the side. So this one guy she's friends with comments on the picture and writes "You look cute blah blah but who's that girl next to you? Is she like your sister or something? No offense but she looks like such a bitch."
I know the picture was from like Kindergarten but still I was like WHAT THE HELL, you don't even know me and you can tell I'm a "bitch" just from looking at my Kindergarten picture? It just offended me for some reason, I don't know why. Some people may not care since the picture is so old and stuff but nobody has called me a bitch in my whole life, so I guess it kinda stung.
Yeah so, how would you guys feel in these types of situations? Do you talk about people you don't know to people? Like if you've heard of somebody but you don't know them personally, if you hear things about them do you talk about it to other people? I would say I do from time to time but I wouldn't come to any conclusions on them. Just maybe "Yeah I heard it was that kid who's name is ____ is really good at that."
http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif Weird topic I know but just wondering if anybody can relate. It's not about being a stalker or anything, it's completely different. I just wonder if these people can judge people who they don't even know, then what kinds of things do they say about their own friends behind their backs...
I have a friend who goes to another school, she knows a girl in a grade lower than me who goes to my school. So she asks me if I know that girl and I say nope. Then she tells me oh because she told me YEAH I know her, I love her! I was a bit taken aback http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif Like er, okay maybe if you've heard of me or something you may say oh yeah I know who she is but have never met her. But okay...it wasn't flattering it was just creepy. I still don't know who she is http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_eek.gif
THEN, today I was looking at a friend's myspace thingy. And where she has posted all her pictures, she has a pic of her and me from Kindergarten. She is looking at the camera and smiling, and I look kinda confused and suspicious or something and I'm like looking to the side. So this one guy she's friends with comments on the picture and writes "You look cute blah blah but who's that girl next to you? Is she like your sister or something? No offense but she looks like such a bitch."
I know the picture was from like Kindergarten but still I was like WHAT THE HELL, you don't even know me and you can tell I'm a "bitch" just from looking at my Kindergarten picture? It just offended me for some reason, I don't know why. Some people may not care since the picture is so old and stuff but nobody has called me a bitch in my whole life, so I guess it kinda stung.
Yeah so, how would you guys feel in these types of situations? Do you talk about people you don't know to people? Like if you've heard of somebody but you don't know them personally, if you hear things about them do you talk about it to other people? I would say I do from time to time but I wouldn't come to any conclusions on them. Just maybe "Yeah I heard it was that kid who's name is ____ is really good at that."
http://www.teenstation.com/my/modules/PNphpBB2/images/smiles/icon_confused.gif Weird topic I know but just wondering if anybody can relate. It's not about being a stalker or anything, it's completely different. I just wonder if these people can judge people who they don't even know, then what kinds of things do they say about their own friends behind their backs...