Relations and RelationShip

here we will all discuss abt relationship...relations...how to act...how to be....ur experience...ur feelings....what u feel abt it...pros and end...anything related to relations

y do guys say 1 thing but do another - and them blame us 4 naggin wen we tell em?

Ummmm....because they're guys. :p

It's in their nature, they never stick to one thing and they also never admit when they're wrong.

nah i'll be fine :p

as a person everyone got there own way of doing or reacting to something...and not all guys r like that......may be u come across someone like that...but we are not like that

Yeah, I guess I shouldn't make generalisations, but you guys I mean some guys do tend to change their minds a lot.
;)

well for making something perfect changing mind isnt a wrong idea ;)

Yeah, but an explanation doesn't hurt.

as and so when required we do tell...asking isnt bad either... :)

Except we never get a straight answer... :p

depends on how that guy is...u can say same about gurls...it depends on person to person..some like telling..some dont prefer to talk abt it..some get irritated...and some just ignore it

So the main point is.................it all depends on the person and how they are. :)

tht not all guys react as same way
u gurls r so much mistaken about boys
its more like u have negative sort of attitude about guys
u feel they r rude.. n mean..and not emotional and so
but its so not right...
guys r very kind....and nice as well..its just we dun show much...we don talk much...and our way is diff

Okay, okay. *backs away a little* Ghussa kyun hote ho. :(

no no im not gussa
m telling u
bolna nahi chaiyee kya? :)
i dun get gussa so easily...
u could ask anyone else in here :)

Your words just seemed a bit harsh. I get what you mean though.....being open minded is good.

umm nopes i didnt mean that
sorry if i sound that way
i actually wanted to say " you gurls think wrong about guys "
well can be cause of gender...cause knowing ppl of own gender is bit easy i guess

Okay, you're doing the mind tricks again. :( I know you meant that, I'm saying being open minded is good. :D Are we clear now?

yupps
being open minded is...
but i dun do tht....i dun tell my stuff im that way...but i do talk abt things open minded...and say what i feel or how it is..as far as i know...

Good for you. ;)

yup listen to all..think al ot..and make ur own decision in tht way... u dun have to blame anyone...and u shuld understand whats good and whats not for you
for a relation to work its very imp for 2 ppl to trust each other...and try to understand each other...and try to look at urself from others point of view...and be sure abt what ur saying...relationships r like thread it can break easily..and to make it can take ages...so we should always be aware we r pulling a thin thread which can break easily

Thankyou for the lesson Raj ji. :p

I totally agree with what you'r saying though, you speak very wisely. :D A good relationship is hard to build.

geez u making me feel like a teacher now lol

It's not my fault, you so sounded like one :p

aww nowayz
i always hated studies
never would like to be one

hahaha lolz
u do sumtime sound like a teacher when ur giving me advice but it all good

awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww

geez
simo do i look like teacher? :(

lolz raj actually u r very simplified guy
knows wot he do did n goin to do
not like me i kno i m doin but not the Rest
cause thinkin hard back of somethin u went through is not easy for me
hehe waise bhi i m kewl ;)
waise abt relation it cant be made u get in to it automatically
for me relation is nothin untill its successful in all means
frm both of the partners n here come let the realtion be anythin..

weeee so much to learn khushi beti--:p

realtionship well i guess trust is important and actually listening to each other is very very important

lolz

y lolz maddy

i guess everyone got a relationship wiff each other...called as humanity ;)
no as for relationship u dun fall for it...u actually accept it...like friends or so... u accept..uske bina to hota nahi hai nah kuch

yeh adi dats true

y lolz maddy

hey addu sorry that "lolz" was no for u yaar
it was for Khushi juss check her post
n i juss posted lil' late by that time u posted b4 me
hey that lolz was not for u.... :(

Awww..... he's gone all upset now. Don't worry I'm sure she won't mind.

There so many forms of realtions. Friends/family/love

All start with trust and understanding...

i guess everyone got a relationship wiff each other...called as humanity ;)
no as for relationship u dun fall for it...u actually accept it...like friends or so... u accept..uske bina to hota nahi hai nah kuch


yup true :)

aww maddy are its okie i wasnt gussa i was just asking y the lolz im not gussaaaaaa madddyyyy yummy idli

im sorrryyy maadyy

yeha danu true

yup true :)

aww maddy are its okie i wasnt gussa i was just asking y the lolz im not gussaaaaaa madddyyyy yummy idli

im sorrryyy maadyy

yeha danu true

phew!!! thanx god u r not gussa
addu my sweet laddu :p

ohh
bechara kitna dukhi tha
la la

abe dukhi nahi but thoda tension me tha :D
ab durr hogaya :p

abhi thoda hai...:D

kyo re aisa kya special? ;)

Yep! There are many types of relationships, some your born into and some you form during your lifetime.

yeh life is full of relationship
because tanha tanha yaha se jeena ...yeh bhi koi baat hai

Was that a rhetorical question? Hehe....baat to sahi hain.

but at times relationship sucks
but then its just ur luck
everything in this world is beautiful
depends on how u look at world

A good relationship is when you come out of those times and still be strong.

good relations r illusions at times...and easy at times..and hard at times....well we come to knw a persons heart from it

haan raj bhai rangeela ka gana

tanha tanha yahan pe jeena yeh koi baat hai
koi saath nahi tera yahan to yeh koi baat hai
kisi ka pyaar lele kisi ko pyaar dede
saare zamane me koi pyaari baat hai

but at times relationship sucks
but then its just ur luck
everything in this world is beautiful
depends on how u look at world

dat true

yeh luv the song
asha bhosale

haan lovely song

yeah i know...

haan khush the movie is kewl too
Munna bhai ;) hheheh

WERE WE TALKING ABT MBBS :o

nah we r not :p

Aamir khan ka naam munna tha rangeela me:p

oooo ok...yeah hez cool dude in it..love hiz lang :p

lolz yh mumbiyya bhasha :D

i like the way he calls milli in the movie

elationships are the most challenging and the most rewarding aspects of this life. The more intimate the relationship the larger opportunity for growth we are given. Relationships are mirrors for us to learn more about ourselves. There are three different types of relationship mirrors.

One is the mirror of who you were. This mirror gives you the opportunity to see how far you have come, the chance to experience the karma that you have already cleared. So don’t get caught up in this relationship worried about why it is coming back at this time, thank it and let it go.

A second type of relationship is the one that is mirroring where you are now on your path. If an issue or person has an emotional "charge" to it, then you still have work to do. This mirror is the hardest to look at because it reflects the things you have not yet finished in your karma. These are the things that we are the most blind to.

The last type of relationship is the one that mirrors your potential. This allows you to have a glimpse at who you could be, if you wanted to. This person is usually someone that you idealize and put on a pedestal.

So look at your various relationships and see which group they fall into. By knowing this you will gain insight into yourself. Self understanding is the entire reason for these mirrors, not to ‘fix’ the other person, but to look at yourself.

wow i learnt summet new

yh raj its really somethin diffrent to kno abt the realtion
tahts nice yaar

very nice raj!! ;)

surely is :)

awww very nice

yh yh raj very nice :p

yehh

blushes 360 degree

nice one.... :D

kitne ajeeb rishtey hai yaha par
do dil miltey hai saath saath chalte hai
fhir maud aayi to...bachke nikalte hai...
kinda so true
geezi wanted to write long...par ab mood nahi
some other time

aww yeah so true...continue

waiting.....

lol right hes sleepin simo heeheheheheheheh
how r ya

not now
fhir kabhi mood ,mein

aww okie

Phir kabhi......meaning never. :p

ill certainly

eheh yeah

but not now

Now kyun nahi.....oh sorry mood nahi hoga na. :D

haan jee
no mood and lazy
besides ppl find my stuff too long n boring i guess

yeahh shazia :p

noo not true

shazia i can read even the deleted posts :p

What deleted posts? I don't know about any deleted posts. *acts innocent*

I just deleted 'cause you already answered...hehe. :D

heeheh awww

hehe i knw
glares at shazia !

*looks away* :54: ....hehe LOL!

comes n stands in front of shazia
n looks again

*turns around and runs* :p

pulls u back
where u running gurl

Ouch!

Away from you...hehe. :p

lolz pull n push :D
all bull fight or somethin in here

catches u
now u cant

*starts to :17:*

I want my mummy. :(

urgg
yeh to roni lagi
are roo mat
oh my god
leaves u
ja baba ja

*sniff sniff* *runs to mummy*

:D

are kya bhai ladki ko ruladiya
oye chup hoja shaz
log dekh rahe hai
kya samjhenge raj ne cheda chi chi
are dont cry go go mom ke pass

are yeh lo chocolate lo
aur chup ho ja baba

*takes chocolate* *stops crying* *eats chocolate*

Yum! :D

ah good
gives u more

now looks better

awwwww nicee

lolz raj bhai mujhe bhi cocolate de na

Hehe.....cocolate ya chocolate? :p

Hehe.....cocolate ya chocolate? :p

haan jo bhi de to sahi
i kno wo tumhe hi denga :D

get me kokum juice heheh looks like wine :D

yeh le peppermint ki goli aish kar bacha

haan saala tu to ek rupiye ki melody chocolate bhi nahi denga mujhe :D

emmmmmm chcohalte where mine?

hey did i hear chocolate???.....mine mine?

i want sommmeee toooo

chocolates!!! yummieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee i want some too raj

heheheh

am eatignoen at da moment

hehe i really want chocolates!!!

me too..i was eating timtams

hehe addu give it to me na
raj nahi de raha hai :( :(

btw isnt TIMTAM-->sold onli in australia.....

:eek: are we talking abt timtamz....man they rock...well no more fast food for me anymore :9....stupid ditetian :angry_smi......

she needs to go on a dite for sure ..lolz

khush :D
i want some too

sure;)

*hands u timtam*

yh thanx khush
u want somethin frm here ;)
like melody choclate lolz n mango bite n parle G biscuit
which u dont get in Aus lolz

for ur info royce...we get everything here-->

thanx for ur kind info. my kulfi ;)

ANytime....

*fone ringin*

yello...da khushi helpline..:D

lolz

thanx khushi for helpin me on fone :p

tat wanst u...it was som1 else...

anywaz if u ever need me just calll

1800kulfi-helpline :D

lolz okie nps

btw..most of the time the line is busy...
so yeah....umm

lolz many guys are there who need help:p

u bet ;)

what are timtam's?

here some for priya
some for simo
lots of peppermint ki goli for mudassar

awww am eating ice cream after months lol

here some for priya
some for simo
lots of peppermint ki goli for mudassar

nahin, mujhe abhi chocolate chaahiye

are i gave u chocolates priya

only goli for maddy
tujhe aur simo ko chocolate diye

aur mujhe :(....

peechle waale melt ho gaye...

peechle waale melt ho gaye...

I think what she meant was.....we want more chocolate... :D

yup yup

chocolate?? emmmmm

Arre peepz u shudnt eat chocolates
chocolate khane se.daanth kharab
ho jaate hai...:D

gives priya box of chocolates

aww tats shweet:D

tujhe bhi chaiyeeE?

heheh rite di it bad

ahem

awwww thanks Raj, mwoah!

its ok Khushi, i'll brush my teeth :) lotsa good stuff in chocies too

i want some to....yeah eyah y would u give any to me..u kanjooz :p

abhi boli nahi to nahi deta :p
u can get a lemon ki goli from me though

aww priyaaaa

y lemon ki goli?

better than pistol ki goli

Hehe...woh toh hain. :D

Except I never got no chocolate either... :( ......hehe...

i have some left over....send them to ya :)

Oh really!.... :D ....thankyou!

:)
which types do you not like? ie nuts, strawberry cream, coffee flavour etc..... ill make sure u dont get those...

lol
priya ahem

:pppppppppppppppp

lol

hows u and aftabji then?

aftabji ?
hahahaaa

LOL!

Priya I don't mind.... :D

hehe

la la

sooo everyoen fele liek singing?

heheeh awww aftabji's theek thak....bit old though! 72 years ke hogye haina!

no im not even listening to songs today

wow why not lol?
i try listenign to hindi music in skool and everyoen shouting at meh lolz

awwwwwww why are tehy shouting???
i am listening to Yeh Dil To Mila Hai from dil ne jise apna kaha

shoutin at u rubz? y?

y ruby am listening to dhoom

in skool anyone would
but i used to sing loudly hehe

oh God...!

hehe awwwwwwwwwww, i wanna hear raj's voice

go on raj.... sing out to the sky...

yea sing sing

simo aaj raat sapno mein aayunga ;)

sach? :)

awww how cute

sach much

awww

aww aur kuch bol nahi sakti ? :p

okie heheheh ..hmm heheeh :p
better?

Hehe.....such broad vocabulary.... :p

yup yup i know awww thnk uu shaziaaaa

You're Welocme Aditiiiiiiiiiiiiiii.............. :D

hahaha! u jokers!

shabhash baccha

aww thnxxx again shazz! aww thnx dadaji ;)

You're welcome again Aditi... :D

Hehe...dadaji... :p ....do we get chocolates? *smiles sweetly*

NO :p

Ohhhh.. :( .....no chocolate.... :( :( .

*sobs*

Aditi was right.....kanjoos... :p

hey did i hear someone say chocolate? :)

yeh priya here lots of em for u

You're welcome again Aditi... :D

Hehe...dadaji... :p ....do we get chocolates? *smiles sweetly*

heeh yeah i want chockies

hope these chocies aren't getting too expensive

shazia always wants more n more
gives 2 to shazia le

Yippppppppeeeeeeeeee! :D :D

Awww.....you know I love 'em.... :p ....LOL!

wat about me :(

Awwww....Aditi, I have two, you can have one... :D

*gives chocolate to Aditi* :)

i thought it woz bout relationships, chocolate wots appnin

it is don...
but u see this gurls...they keep talking abt everything

hehe yes nothing wrong wit that!! ;) haha

nah...tum jo bhi kahogi..acha hi hoga

lol

Hehe....yeah, chocolate thing my fault.

*hangs head in shame*

Okay relationships.....ummm.....quote:

"I'm very loyal in relationships. Even when I go out with my mom I don't look at other moms."

:p ...hehe.....kidding, here's a better one:

Relationships give us a reason to live.

What do you think? True?

:D

awwwwwwwwwwwwwww how sweet raj!

"I'm very loyal in relationships. Even when I go out with my mom I don't look at other moms."

^^hehehe niceee :p

yeh n some give reason to hurt n hate as well

Hurting and hating is part of living....so it's true?

everything we do is part of living

Yep it sure is....everything we do and the consequences.

consequences we have to accept even if we dont like
but well life is life

Life is life accept it... :D On that note I bid you goodbye! ....hehe...got to go... :)

geez when did i decline?
dunno why u assuming stuff today
anyways byee
tc

Sheesh when did I say you declined?
You're assuming stuff.
Okay...now I'm really going.... :p Bye!

u saying accept it n all
u need rest i guess

I was just passing a comment...nothing to do with you... :) Sorry...for causing any misunderstanding... ;)

Had to get that cleared....now I'm gone...100% and please don't give me reason to come back.... :p ...I need to eat.... :D

as if m holding ur hand
go eat :p

awwwwww
i wanan eat as well

awwwwwwwww go eat rubby!

i want pakoras

yeahh...aww go n eat them then

Hehe...pakoras....my baby cousin calls them kaporas...hehe...cracks me up all the time....so sweet. :D

I had some yesterday... :p ...na, na, na, na, na....*pulls a silly face*....hehe... ;)

I know for sure that one thing a guy or straight guy will never say to another guy is "Does my butt look fat".....


Guys are the less sensative one in a relationshipz...mostly

Guys are less sensative anyway... :p .....but I guess it only seems like that 'cause they don't tend to show what they feel as openly.

(Ooo....and btw guys I'm not generalising... :) Just speaking of the few guys that may be like that)

yeah guys...i'm not criticing to just saying you don't open so easily like women or most women

I guess women are just much more comfortable talking about how they feel than men are.

Yeah..that is so true..

yeh dat true
i can probably talk about ma feeling wiv a guy then a gal coz sumtime even gal cant understadn them better than a guy

am weird init?

Not wierd....different... :D ...a good different... :)

Personally never talk to a guy about my feelings....how do you know they won't make fun of you.... :rolleyes: ...nah never... :p

I like talking to guys about my feeling sometimes too because they don't usually judge you like "Most" women would and they are easy to talk to and most of my guyfriends i know won't say anything to other abt what we talked abt and they don't gossip like women which is a major point in my book...just speaking from experience

^^yup so true

I like talking to guys about my feeling sometimes too because they don't usually judge you like "Most" women would and they are easy to talk to and most of my guyfriends i know won't say anything to other abt what we talked abt and they don't gossip like women which is a major point in my book...just speaking from experience

yes exactly, i always end up pouring out to a guy

yeah happens priya

I guess you'll have to be really close to a guy to actually talk to them about stuff like that....I mean to trust them an' all.

I guess you'll have to be really close to a guy to actually talk to them about stuff like that....I mean to trust them an' all.
Yeah you gonna have to be close to a guy and trust him completely as a friend with your secret like you girl pal ;)

u know what i used to pour my heart out to guys, but i stop that, waiting for them to come to me, i mean if he cares so much about u then he will come right?

yeahhh simo :)

u know what i used to pour my heart out to guys, but i stop that, waiting for them to come to me, i mean if he cares so much about u then he will come right?
it's not just poring your heart out to guy you love or you gufriend...it's being comfortable talking to him and sharing and not being afraid he will dump you....

hmmm yeah..

simo u still pour to me :p

u know what i used to pour my heart out to guys, but i stop that, waiting for them to come to me, i mean if he cares so much about u then he will come right?

hey simo same thing wit me
i juss cant express my self to someone
i want some one to approach me:o i kno that will neva happen
but thats me:o:o

hye hey it'll happen, someone will approach you.....or just bite the bullet and do it yourself

i saw article on my starsign it said tht we assume tht the gurl said yes... it was funny
it said we dont actually propose or say, we assume she said yes, when we give too much attention or so

yes, like a friend of mine Seema, this guy she hung around with a lot suddenly tells them they're breaking uop because he has family probs... she didn't even know she was going out with him!

awww
i think i also dun like to keep expressing love..there r some stuff which should be understood...im romantic.. but im not tht type who will keep saying i loveu i love u

as long as you show that you love her, show that you were/are thinking of her etc, u dont have to keep saying i love you. but still, most girls wanna be told all the time, to make sure

yeh some things should be understood, its a connection

me i dun like to keep saying...
yeh its there aaint a heart to heart connection and understanding to fayda nahi